Episode
The Desire Gap: ADHD, Sex, and Mismatched Libido with Laura Jurgens EP 563
- Podcast
- ADHD reWired
- Published
- May 5, 2026
- Duration seconds
- 3627
- Processing state
not_requested- Canonical source
- HTTPS://WWW.ADHDREWIRED.COM/562-2
Actions
POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/adhd-rewired-170907/episodes/the-desire-gap-adhd-sex-and-mismatched-libido-with-laura-jurgens-ep-563/transcription-requests
Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode.GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/adhd-rewired-170907/the-desire-gap-adhd-sex-and-mismatched-libido-with-laura-jurgens-ep-563.md
Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource.
Summary
Episode topic: ADHD, sex, desire discrepancy, intimacy, communication, kink, queerness, polyamory, and what happens when libido doesn't match in relationships. Content note: This episode includes candid adult conversation about sex, desire, libido, kink, dating apps, polyamory, and sexual communication. Episode Summary What happens when one partner wants sex more than the other? What if ADHD affects libido in both directions? And what if "just do it" is actually some of the worst advice out there? In this episode, Eric is joined by Laura Jurgens, a dual-certified master relationship and intimacy coach, desire and arousal specialist, and host of The Desire Gap podcast. Laura helps individuals and couples create more authentic sexual connection, including when one or both partners are neurodivergent. Eric and Laura get into a candid, shame-free conversation about ADHD, sex, mismatched libido, desire discrepancies, rejection sensitivity, sensory needs, communication, and why so many people struggle to talk openly about what they actually want. Laura explains why desire differences are incredibly common in long-term relationships, why obligation sex can create resentment and shut down libido, and how ADHD can shape both high and low desire. She also shares how people can begin reconnecting with their bodies, practicing self-attunement, and communicating more clearly with partners. The conversation also explores sex positivity, kink positivity, queer dating, bisexuality, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and the importance of honest, embodied consent. This episode is frank, playful, personal, and deeply human. In This Episode, You'll Hear About Why desire discrepancy is common in long-term relationships How ADHD can contribute to both high libido and low libido Why "just do…