Episode

the avoidant returned..now what?

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A Little Birdie Told You
Published
Mar 21, 2026
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1344
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Summary

An avoidant usually always makes a return, but should you let them? You may be asking yourself, why are they coming back? Why would the person who couldn’t commit come back? Is it curiosity, closure, or control? Well, in this episode, Kristen discusses what to do when the very person who left you decides to return, how to avoid repeating the cycle, the psychology behind the pattern, energetically detaching from the dynamic, and why rejecting an avoidant may be the best case scenario. Disclaimer: The views expressed in this content do not, and do not intend to constitute legal advice, all information or advice provided is provided for informational and entertainment purposes. We are not responsible for any losses, damages, or liabilities that may arise from the use of this podcast.