{"podcast":{"title":"You’re Probably Right","slug":"you-re-probably-right-7050884","podcast_index_feed_id":7050884,"rss_url":"https://www.spreaker.com/show/6269762/episodes/feed","website_url":"https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/you-re-probably-right--6269762","image_url":"https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/ab379f43d137a00022548d6c2bd861c7.jpg","author":"Murray Ed","episode_count":365,"summary":"In this Society anything you do is bad if your actions do not line up with the popular narrative. This podcast Goes against popular narratives. The intention of the speaker and “His” Podcast is to provoke thought and for entertainment purposes only. Please be aware that some content may be emotionally triggering and of a sensitive nature. Therefore Listener discretion is advised.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-13T08:20:04.426176+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/you-re-probably-right-7050884"},"episode":{"title":"Episode 324 After the Pattern What Healing Actually Looks Like in Love","slug":"episode-324-after-the-pattern-what-healing-actually-looks-like-in-love","published_at":"2026-03-17T03:04:52+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/you-re-probably-right-7050884/episode-324-after-the-pattern-what-healing-actually-looks-like-in-love","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/you-re-probably-right-7050884","url":"https://www.spreaker.com/episode/episode-324-after-the-pattern-what-healing-actually-looks-like-in-love--70675418","audio_url":"https://api.spreaker.com/download/episode/70675418/97ef758e_098a_0a86_843a_d6a1fecaa9d9.mp3","summary":"After you recognize the pattern, what do you actually do next?In Episode 324, I break down what healing really looks like in love after heartbreak, emotional pain, and repeated relationship patterns. We talk through four major adaptations people fall into after hurt: withdrawal, control, compensation, and losing yourself. Then we get specific about what each pattern is trying to protect, what it costs, what healing asks you to stop doing, and what healthier love starts to look like instead.This episode is for anyone trying to heal emotional unavailability, fear of intimacy, people pleasing, overgiving, self-abandonment, control in relationships, or the need to earn love. If you have ever asked, “Why do I keep repeating the same relationship cycle?” or “How do I heal without becoming cold, guarded, or hard?” this episode is for you.Topics in this episode include relationship healing, attachment patterns, trauma responses in love, vulnerability, boundaries, emotional availability, mutuality, selfhood in relationships, and what healthy love looks like after pain.","meta_description":"After you recognize the pattern, what do you actually do next?In Episode 324, I break down what healing really looks like in love after heartbreak, emotio…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":4068,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/you-re-probably-right-7050884/episodes/episode-324-after-the-pattern-what-healing-actually-looks-like-in-love/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/you-re-probably-right-7050884/episode-324-after-the-pattern-what-healing-actually-looks-like-in-love.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}