{"podcast":{"title":"You Can Be Both","slug":"you-can-be-both-7576307","podcast_index_feed_id":7576307,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/10b47a908/podcast/rss","website_url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-can-be-both","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/44742130/44742130-1762547217244-a90f5ddea203c.jpg","author":"Lauren Lanzaretta","episode_count":36,"summary":"You Can Be Both is hosted by singer/songwriter Lauren Lanzaretta, who shares honest conversations about being both gay and Christian—two identities often seen as incompatible. The podcast creates space for LGBTQ+ people of faith to find healing, community, and a deeper connection with Christ while fully embracing who they are. As a first step to your healing journey, I recommend the “LGBTQ+ Healing & Resource Guide” - go to www.youcanbeboth.com for this and other resources. Join the You Can Be Both Community App https://youcanbeboth.mn.co/plans/1984569?bundle_token=a02f1c1a95e905aa187210545","last_synced_at":"2026-07-05T14:19:26.748663+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/you-can-be-both-7576307"},"episode":{"title":"Jaden Ivey Pride Night Controversy Explained | Gay Christian Responds","slug":"jaden-ivey-pride-night-controversy-explained-gay-christian-responds","published_at":"2026-04-12T15:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/you-can-be-both-7576307/jaden-ivey-pride-night-controversy-explained-gay-christian-responds","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/you-can-be-both-7576307","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/you-can-be-both/episodes/Jaden-Ivey-Pride-Night-Controversy-Explained--Gay-Christian-Responds-e3hkqd7","audio_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/10b47a908/podcast/play/118171495/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-3-9%2F421696074-44100-2-401f29397c06.mp3","summary":"NBA player Jaden Ivey was recently suspended for making homophobic comments about Pride Night, calling it \"unrighteous\" and against his Christian beliefs. But when did being Christian become about being the moral police instead of loving people? In this episode, I break down why Jaden Ivey's comments are the opposite of what Jesus taught, why Pride Night matters for LGBTQ+ people who have been marginalized and discriminated against for decades, and why Christians need to stop using their beliefs to justify hate. Here's the truth: LGBTQ+ people are human beings. We wake up, go to work, have families, and try to survive just like everyone else. We've been kicked out of churches, rejected by our families, physically assaulted, and even murdered simply for being who we are. And now, when the NBA says, \"Hey, we're going to have ONE NIGHT where LGBTQ+ people can feel welcomed and safe,\" some Christians have a problem with it?That's not Christianity. That's bigotry. IN THIS EPISODE: ✅ Why Jaden Ivey's \"beliefs\" are actually harmful ✅ The difference between beliefs and bigotry ✅ How the Bible was used to justify slavery and segregation ✅ What Jesus actually said about loving marginalized people ✅ Why Christians who obsess over LGBTQ+ people might be struggling themselves ✅ A challenge to Christians: Go to Pride Night and meet real people ✅ Why \"loving the sinner, hating the sin\" is still hate QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE: \"When your beliefs start to take away the human rights of other people, they are no longer beliefs. You are just a homophobic and hateful bigot.\" \"You are not earning any brownie points with God for hating on people.\" \"Stop being narcissistic and thinking that you have all the answers. You are a sinner yourself, and God had mercy on you—so have mercy on others.\"…","meta_description":"NBA player Jaden Ivey was recently suspended for making homophobic comments about Pride Night, calling it \"unrighteous\" and against his Christian beliefs.…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":864,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/you-can-be-both-7576307/episodes/jaden-ivey-pride-night-controversy-explained-gay-christian-responds/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/you-can-be-both-7576307/jaden-ivey-pride-night-controversy-explained-gay-christian-responds.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}