{"podcast":{"title":"Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? with Emily Fletcher","slug":"why-isn-t-everyone-doing-this-with-emily-fletcher-6365708","podcast_index_feed_id":6365708,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/CAAAC6898069501","website_url":"https://sites.libsyn.com/472572","image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/919cd0f6-b956-11ee-a16f-fbfd3f706811/image/Final_-_Podcast_Art.jpg?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Emily Fletcher","episode_count":153,"summary":"Welcome to Why Isn't Everyone Doing This with Emily Fletcher. Each week we’ll explore some of the most spine-tingling, potent modalities that can give you the kind of bliss and pleasure that is your birthright. No topic is off limits: We’ll dive into everything from breathwork to psychedelics, from meditation to BDSM. Join Emily in conversation with scientists, doctors, healers, and innovative thinkers to reveal the tools that have radically changed their lives, and that very well may change yours, too. We can’t wait to hear which one has you asking, “Why isn’t everyone doing this?”","last_synced_at":"2026-07-30T08:17:41.152569+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/why-isn-t-everyone-doing-this-with-emily-fletcher-6365708"},"episode":{"title":"117. Why Isn't Everyone Serving the Field of Love? with John Wineland","slug":"117-why-isn-t-everyone-serving-the-field-of-love-with-john-wineland","published_at":"2026-03-31T07:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/why-isn-t-everyone-doing-this-with-emily-fletcher-6365708/117-why-isn-t-everyone-serving-the-field-of-love-with-john-wineland","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/why-isn-t-everyone-doing-this-with-emily-fletcher-6365708","url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/CAAAC2894351409.mp3?updated=1774904807","audio_url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/CAAAC2894351409.mp3?updated=1774904807","summary":"What if the single most important thing you can do for your relationships, your family, and even the state of the world right now is to take 100% responsibility for the field of love around you? In this episode of Why Isn't Everyone Doing This?, Emily sits down with John Wineland, teacher of embodied leadership and one of the most respected voices in men's development and relational practice, for a conversation that reframes how love actually works. John introduces the concept of the \"field of love\" as a real, felt, measurable entity that exists between people, and explains why most of us are unconsciously either amplifying or diminishing it every day without realizing it. He shares the distinction between childhood consciousness (seeking safety) and adult consciousness (creating safety), why sacred rage must travel through the heart to move people, and how to bring your full emotional truth in a way that can actually be received. This episode is for anyone who wants deeper intimacy, a more honest relationship with their own emotional landscape, and a clearer understanding of what it takes to love well in these times. In this episode, they explore: – The \"field of love\" as a measurable third entity between two people, and how to amplify or diminish it in real time – Why most people are unconsciously mating wounded children to wounded children, and how inner development work changes what you attract – The crucial difference between childhood consciousness (seeking safety) and adult consciousness (creating safety) – Why sacred rage must travel through the heart to actually move people, and a live practice John uses in workshops – How to bring your emotions in a \"container\" that your partner's nervous system can actually metabolize – The masculine practice of feeling both…","meta_description":"What if the single most important thing you can do for your relationships, your family, and even the state of the world right now is to take 100% responsi…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":5527,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/why-isn-t-everyone-doing-this-with-emily-fletcher-6365708/episodes/117-why-isn-t-everyone-serving-the-field-of-love-with-john-wineland/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/why-isn-t-everyone-doing-this-with-emily-fletcher-6365708/117-why-isn-t-everyone-serving-the-field-of-love-with-john-wineland.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}