{"podcast":{"title":"Whereabouts Tales | Stories of Belonging and Immigrant Experiences","slug":"whereabouts-tales-stories-of-belonging-and-immigrant-experiences-7144981","podcast_index_feed_id":7144981,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/fe6afdfc/podcast/rss","website_url":"https://www.whereaboutstales.com","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/42584247/42584247-1752127550745-9b2eab05efe95.jpg","author":"Paul Puscas | Stories of Belonging and Cultural Exploration","episode_count":75,"summary":"Whereabouts Tales shares the real stories of immigrant experiences, belonging, and global journeys from expats, returnees, and cultural explorers. I'm diving into life between worlds unpacking identity, transformation, and what it means to belong. Each episode is a conversation about chasing dreams, navigating change, and discovering yourself far from home. Tune in for raw, thoughtful, and inspiring journeys across borders. 🎧 New episodes every 2 weeks | 🌍 Real people. Raw stories. Remarkable paths.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-23T06:20:22.667896+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/whereabouts-tales-stories-of-belonging-and-immigrant-experiences-7144981"},"episode":{"title":"David Deane Haskell: Toxic Shame, Codependency & Inner Child Recovery","slug":"david-deane-haskell-toxic-shame-codependency-inner-child-recovery","published_at":"2026-07-22T15:45:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/whereabouts-tales-stories-of-belonging-and-immigrant-experiences-7144981/david-deane-haskell-toxic-shame-codependency-inner-child-recovery","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/whereabouts-tales-stories-of-belonging-and-immigrant-experiences-7144981","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paul-puscas/episodes/David-Deane-Haskell-Toxic-Shame--Codependency--Inner-Child-Recovery-e3md7oo","audio_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/fe6afdfc/podcast/play/123165912/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-6-22%2F428407144-44100-2-a121730477e08.mp3","summary":"What if positive affirmations are actually disgusting? Author David Deane Haskell breaks down the brutal realities of toxic shame, addiction, and codependency. In this sprint of the Book of Tales , we pivot from analyzing failing global logistics to analyzing the most complex, easily compromised system on earth: our own psychology. We sit down with David Deane Haskell, author of Wounded Angels , to dismantle the polite myths of the modern self-help industry. David provides a real-time autopsy of his recovery from severe substance addiction and codependency. We trace the origins of "unearned shame" back to childhood trauma and examine how adult triggers expose our buried wounds. We discuss the visceral discomfort of early recovery, the danger of treating your symptoms as proof of your brokenness, and why re-parenting your inner child requires radical self-acceptance instead of seeking external validation. This is not a polished five-step program; it is the raw, unvarnished work of survival. Chapters 00:00 - Why Positive Affirmations Feel "Gross" 01:50 - The Anti-Self-Help Manual: Wounded Angels 06:05 - Anatomy of an Adult Trigger 07:45 - From Substance Addiction to Codependency 12:00 - The "Shame-Shocked" Boy & Scapegoating 15:15 - The Visceral Reality of Toxic Shame 24:25 - Confronting the "Inner Critic" 27:45 - Escapism vs. Real Healing 50:00 - Re-Parenting & Adult Children","meta_description":"What if positive affirmations are actually disgusting? Author David Deane Haskell breaks down the brutal realities of toxic shame, addiction, and codepend…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":3805,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/whereabouts-tales-stories-of-belonging-and-immigrant-experiences-7144981/episodes/david-deane-haskell-toxic-shame-codependency-inner-child-recovery/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/whereabouts-tales-stories-of-belonging-and-immigrant-experiences-7144981/david-deane-haskell-toxic-shame-codependency-inner-child-recovery.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}