{"podcast":{"title":"Wet Dreamz","slug":"wet-dreamz-6570437","podcast_index_feed_id":6570437,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/9b1c177c/podcast/rss","website_url":"https://hinmancounselingservices.com","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/25923095/25923095-1687120116205-d8b7a7ea492d6.jpg","author":"Jose Gonzalez","episode_count":41,"summary":"As men we are expected to be a provider, be strong, have it all put together, and know all there is to know about sex. In this podcast we will discuss all the taboo topics surrounding men's sexuality and empower men to improve themselves and their sexual health.","last_synced_at":"2026-06-28T14:19:08.492921+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/wet-dreamz-6570437"},"episode":{"title":"30. \"90% of what we worry about isn't true\": What Really Happens in Your First Sex Therapy Session","slug":"30-90-of-what-we-worry-about-isn-t-true-what-really-happens-in-your-first-sex-therapy-session","published_at":"2025-07-12T12:25:21+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/wet-dreamz-6570437/30-90-of-what-we-worry-about-isn-t-true-what-really-happens-in-your-first-sex-therapy-session","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/wet-dreamz-6570437","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jose-gonzalez775/episodes/30--90-of-what-we-worry-about-isnt-true-What-Really-Happens-in-Your-First-Sex-Therapy-Session-e35f09h","audio_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/9b1c177c/podcast/play/105398001/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-6-12%2F403779791-44100-2-9b36bc81a09b8.m4a","summary":"In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, host Jose Gonzalez and guest Dr. Brad Hinman break down what to expect during your first visit to a sex therapist. They discuss common anxieties and misconceptions—like embarrassment, fear of judgment, or not knowing what sex therapists actually do—and reassure listeners that sex therapy is professional, confidential, and supportive. The conversation covers what typically happens in a first session (mostly talking, no physical exams!), the range of issues sex therapists help with (from desire differences and dysfunction to infidelity and sexual identity concerns), and practical tips on how to prepare. Above all, they encourage listeners to feel comfortable seeking help early and highlight the importance of honesty, openness, and humor in the therapeutic process. Timestamps 00:00 First Sex Therapy Visit Guide 04:59 Lack of Sex Therapy Education 07:03 Talking Openly About Sex 12:41 Therapy Avoidance Phenomenon 15:07 Confidentiality and Honesty Encouraged 18:16 Problem Identification and Solutions Collaboration 20:32 Unique Challenges in Sex Therapy 25:08 Misconceptions About Sex Therapy 27:09 Define Therapy Goals 32:18 Restoring Lightness in Relationships 33:18 Lightening Awkward Conversations 38:06 Sex Therapy Insurance Coverage 42:07 Detached Perspective on Sex Therapy 43:20 \"Wet Dreams Podcast Disclaimer\" ⁠⁠LinkTree⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Music from #Uppbeat free for Creators!):⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://uppbeat.io/t/moire/new-life⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠License code: 0SWIN8YAF7EIY6YI","meta_description":"In this episode of the Wet Dreamz Podcast, host Jose Gonzalez and guest Dr. Brad Hinman break down what to expect during your first visit to a sex therapi…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2634,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/wet-dreamz-6570437/episodes/30-90-of-what-we-worry-about-isn-t-true-what-really-happens-in-your-first-sex-therapy-session/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/wet-dreamz-6570437/30-90-of-what-we-worry-about-isn-t-true-what-really-happens-in-your-first-sex-therapy-session.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}