{"podcast":{"title":"Were You Raised By Wolves?","slug":"were-you-raised-by-wolves-606513","podcast_index_feed_id":606513,"rss_url":"https://rss.art19.com/wyrbw","website_url":"https://www.wereyouraisedbywolves.com/","image_url":"https://content.production.cdn.art19.com/images/c4/14/7e/4a/c4147e4a-7a6b-45e8-8fab-6ef102e2b15f/068f91ae794b8fb966420b6fb58bd2db06d0530796c5224d564d04bfbe47fa3ad5104bdc8fa502ea9b9b292455693588c792f3370892fbbb31b65716ce6d6c50.jpeg","author":"Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema","episode_count":360,"summary":"Editors’ Notes: “I want to give everybody the tools to solve their own etiquette problems,” says Nick Leighton, cohost and producer of Were You Raised by Wolves?, a weekly podcast in which he and cohost Leah Bonnema look into the many sticky social situations we all face. “With each of the questions that we get, from the bonkers to the ordinary, I always try to take a step back and ask, ‘What are the bigger principles here?’ I'm always looking for topics that help us make a larger point.” In each episode, Leighton, a two-time Emmy Award-winning journalist, and Bonnema, a comic/writer, share practical advice on how to navigate a wide range of situations, from the serious to the whimsical—whether they tackle interrupting excessive talkers, establishing healthy boundaries with coworkers, or the proper way to eat Cheetos. When they developed the show in 2019, Leighton and Bonnema had one goal in mind: to have empathy for other people. Their informal conversations tackle a mix of personal topics, viewer questions, and the occasional historical fact with warmth and positivity and humor. Leighton views this approach as an antidote to a lot of the negativity he sees in the online world, w…","last_synced_at":"2026-07-13T16:22:28.175228+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/were-you-raised-by-wolves-606513"},"episode":{"title":"Dressing for Vague Galas, Pushing In Dining Chairs, Taking Cookies Prematurely, and More","slug":"dressing-for-vague-galas-pushing-in-dining-chairs-taking-cookies-prematurely-and-more","published_at":"2026-01-19T09:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/were-you-raised-by-wolves-606513/dressing-for-vague-galas-pushing-in-dining-chairs-taking-cookies-prematurely-and-more","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/were-you-raised-by-wolves-606513","url":"https://wyrbw.com/293","audio_url":"https://pscrb.fm/rss/p/tracking.swap.fm/track/t7yC0rGPUqahTF4et8YD/rss.art19.com/episodes/dc31d434-5f4c-44c0-9978-ab629e45e780.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0","summary":"Etiquette, manners, and beyond! In this episode, Nick and Leah answer listener questions about dressing for galas when the invitation is vague, pushing in chairs after dining, taking cookies prematurely from buffets, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.) Have a question for us? Call or text (267) CALL-RBW or visit  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ask.wyrbw.com ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: What should one wear to a bank gala with a vague “Disco Jungle” theme? What is the etiquette around asking multiple questions in a single text message? Should anything be done when a deceased colleague’s LinkedIn account continues to post automated updates? When finished with a meal, is it proper to push in your chair before leaving the table? Is it acceptable to take cookies from a birthday dessert buffet before “Happy Birthday” is sung? If you ask someone for something, they decline, and then discard it later, is that rude? 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