{"podcast":{"title":"We Chat Divorce Podcast","slug":"we-chat-divorce-podcast-980618","podcast_index_feed_id":980618,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/wechatdivorce","website_url":"https://mydivorcesolution.com/","image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/2f80888c-5ea3-11ec-9068-cf302e42d514/image/25a8db58143a8944c7b7a625b053447a.png?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"My Divorce Solution","episode_count":215,"summary":"Divorce is emotional — but it’s also financial. We Chat Divorce helps you understand both. Join hosts Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan, co-founders of My Divorce Solution, for expert divorce insights, real stories, and proven financial strategies that turn fear into focus, focus into knowledge, and knowledge into power. Whether you’re just considering divorce, in the middle of it, or rebuilding after, you’ll learn how to protect your finances, make informed decisions, and move forward with clarity and confidence. The #1 podcast for financial divorce preparation, empowerment, and real talk about money, marriage, and moving on.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-09T02:20:36.461456+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/we-chat-divorce-podcast-980618"},"episode":{"title":"188. The Hidden Divorce: Why You Feel Stuck—and How Financial Clarity Sets You Free","slug":"188-the-hidden-divorce-why-you-feel-stuck-and-how-financial-clarity-sets-you-free","published_at":"2026-03-25T11:20:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/we-chat-divorce-podcast-980618/188-the-hidden-divorce-why-you-feel-stuck-and-how-financial-clarity-sets-you-free","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/we-chat-divorce-podcast-980618","url":"https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/G4CF79/traffic.megaphone.fm/MHL9660593746.mp3","audio_url":"https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/chrt.fm/track/G4CF79/traffic.megaphone.fm/MHL9660593746.mp3","summary":"There’s a quiet kind of divorce that doesn’t start with papers being filed. It starts years earlier—when the relationship has already ended emotionally, but nothing changes on the outside. In this episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan are joined by returning guest Karen Covy—divorce coach, attorney, mediator, and author—to unpack what it really means to feel “stuck” in a marriage. If you’ve been living in that in-between space—where fear, uncertainty, and obligation keep you from moving forward—this conversation will help you understand why. More importantly, it will show you what’s actually missing: clarity. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: What a “hidden divorce” really is—and why so many people are living in one The real reasons people stay stuck (it’s not just fear of divorce) Why not knowing your financial picture keeps you in indecision How misinformation from spouses, friends, Google, and AI can lead to costly mistakes Why divorce is not a binary decision—and the options most people never consider The role of financial independence and confidence, especially in long-term marriages How to make decisions using head, heart, and gut—not just fear Why clarity before action can dramatically reduce conflict, cost, and regret Resources Mentioned My Divorce Solution MDS Financial Portrait™ MDS Community (free support + live Q&A) Visit https://karencovy.com/ to find Karen’s resources When Happily Ever After Ends (book) Divorce Roadmap 3.0 Off the Fence Podcast If you’re questioning your marriage—or quietly feeling stuck—you don’t need to rush into a decision. Start with clarity. At My Divorce Solution, we help you understand your full financial picture before you take your next step—so your decisions are grounded in knowledge, not fear. Le…","meta_description":"There’s a quiet kind of divorce that doesn’t start with papers being filed. It starts years earlier—when the relationship has already ended emotionally, b…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2521,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/we-chat-divorce-podcast-980618/episodes/188-the-hidden-divorce-why-you-feel-stuck-and-how-financial-clarity-sets-you-free/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/we-chat-divorce-podcast-980618/188-the-hidden-divorce-why-you-feel-stuck-and-how-financial-clarity-sets-you-free.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}