{"podcast":{"title":"We Are Out of Office","slug":"we-are-out-of-office-7089990","podcast_index_feed_id":7089990,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/we-are-out-of-office/","website_url":"https://we-are-out-of-office.captivate.fm","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/53a0f6ff-912c-4249-a06b-cb61c7ab093c/PMWKLSxy5c3KVp1clCE1thuG.png","author":"Jayne Allen Writes and Nikki T","episode_count":62,"summary":"The high vibration podcast you know you need is here. Spend your \"hour of power\" with hosts Jayne Allen and Nikki T and what it looks like as a black woman to unplug, recharge, choose joy, and spend your hard earned free time living your best life ever. Focused on health, happiness, and healing, these two friends offer straightforward and often hilarious commentary about all things we do when we're not doing \"that\" anymore. So, get into this show and say it with us: \"Get some one else to do it!\" We are officially Out of Office.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/we-are-out-of-office-7089990"},"episode":{"title":"Episode 50 - The Radical Joy of Not Waiting on an Apology","slug":"episode-50-the-radical-joy-of-not-waiting-on-an-apology","published_at":"2026-01-31T14:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/we-are-out-of-office-7089990/episode-50-the-radical-joy-of-not-waiting-on-an-apology","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/we-are-out-of-office-7089990","url":"https://we-are-out-of-office.captivate.fm","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/d7e3130f-dba7-4ab7-8572-174fdbe26ade.mp3","summary":"In this week’s Episode 50 of We Are Out of Office , your co-hosts Veteran Television Executive Producer ( The Night Agent ) Nikki T and Bestselling Author Jayne Allen reach a powerful turning point: the freedom that comes when you stop waiting for an apology that may never arrive. This milestone episode centers on emotional closure without permission—what it means to move forward without acknowledgment, accountability, or validation from the people who hurt you. Nikki and Jayne explore how waiting on an apology can quietly tether you to disappointment, keeping your nervous system in negotiation long after the relationship, situation, or season has ended. The conversation moves through work, relationships, creativity, and cultural dynamics, naming a truth many people avoid: not every harm will be named, and not every wound will be repaired by the person who caused it . But healing doesn’t have to wait. Together, the hosts unpack how maturity often looks like releasing the fantasy of repair, choosing peace over resolution, and reclaiming energy that’s been stuck in expectation. They talk candidly about how apology culture can sometimes mask avoidance—and how closure is something you can give yourself. In Health & Healing , the episode reframes forgiveness as a personal decision, not a public performance. Jayne reflects on how self-trust grows when you stop rehearsing conversations that will never happen, while Nikki speaks to the relief that comes from no longer needing someone else to “get it” before you move on. The episode also includes: Insight into why apologies aren’t always the healing we imagine Honest reflection on grief, accountability, and acceptance Cultural observations on emotional labor and expectation Grounded reminders that peace doesn’t require agre…","meta_description":"In this week’s Episode 50 of We Are Out of Office , your co-hosts Veteran Television Executive Producer ( The Night Agent ) Nikki T and Bestselling Author…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":4557,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/we-are-out-of-office-7089990/episodes/episode-50-the-radical-joy-of-not-waiting-on-an-apology/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/we-are-out-of-office-7089990/episode-50-the-radical-joy-of-not-waiting-on-an-apology.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}