{"podcast":{"title":"Unblock Your BS","slug":"unblock-your-bs-7162348","podcast_index_feed_id":7162348,"rss_url":"https://feeds.libsyn.com/559025/rss","website_url":"https://www.unblockyourbs.com","image_url":"https://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/8/f/3/e/8f3eaf409c60ced416c3140a3186d450/UBS_POD_cover_artwork_2000_x_2000_px.png","author":"Unblock Your BS, LLC","episode_count":79,"summary":"Are you sick of the BS holding you back? \"Unblock Your BS\" is your no-nonsense guide to healing, self-awareness, and reclaiming your power. Hosted by Coach Tara, a certified somatic release breathwork practitioner and self awareness coach, this podcast dives deep into the belief systems (and, let's be real, the bullshit) that keep us stuck. Each episode explores topics like self-love, emotional intelligence, healing from anxiety and depression, breaking free from toxic cycles, the root causes of our own people pleasing and self abandonment in relationships, and finding your authentic voice. Whether you're navigating a breakup or divorce, recovering from burnout, or just looking for tools to live a more aligned life, this podcast is your space to unblock your potential. It's time to rewrite your story, take radical ownership of your life, and join the self-aware army. Let's break through the BS together!","last_synced_at":"2026-07-15T16:20:02.949790+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/unblock-your-bs-7162348"},"episode":{"title":"What Happens When Only One Partner Does the Work","slug":"what-happens-when-only-one-partner-does-the-work","published_at":"2026-07-01T07:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/unblock-your-bs-7162348/what-happens-when-only-one-partner-does-the-work","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/unblock-your-bs-7162348","url":"https://44c46f29-c836-4e72-8af1-72748ae1234e.libsyn.com/what-happens-when-only-one-partner-does-the-work","audio_url":"https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/44c46f29-c836-4e72-8af1-72748ae1234e/Episode_77_Audio_Podcast.mp3?dest-id=4829170","summary":"You've been doing the work. So why does she still have her guard up like nothing's changed? In this episode, Tara sits down with Coleman, one of the coaches inside Healthy Men-tality, and her own personal nervous system coach. Because he primarily supports women and Tara primarily supports men, the two of them get to see both sides of what happens inside a relationship when nervous systems start to heal. The heart of this conversation is what happens when one partner is doing the work and the other isn't there yet. When a man starts to regulate and grow, his partner's nervous system often still doesn't trust it, because her body is wired to respond to the old version of him. Coleman and Tara get into why that gap exists and what actually helps close it, plus the practical skills underneath all of it. Inside this episode, they get into: What it really means when one partner does the nervous system work and the other isn't there yet Why softness is a form of strength for men, not weakness Parts work and shadow work explained simply, and how protective parts quietly run the show The difference between co-regulation and codependency How to set boundaries before conflict starts instead of in the middle of a trigger Capacity, what it is, and why so many men are running on almost none How your nervous system shapes what you perceive as reality What shifts for a woman when her man finally has the capacity to hold space instead of jumping in to fix When both people build a relationship with their own nervous system, that's when the old cycles finally start to change. If you've got someone in your life who'd benefit from hearing this, share it with them. Connect with Coleman: Find Coleman on TikTok and Instagram @coleheartedwellness \"Safe in My Body, Safe with Myself\" program: h…","meta_description":"You've been doing the work. So why does she still have her guard up like nothing's changed? In this episode, Tara sits down with Coleman, one of the coach…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2468,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/unblock-your-bs-7162348/episodes/what-happens-when-only-one-partner-does-the-work/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/unblock-your-bs-7162348/what-happens-when-only-one-partner-does-the-work.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}