{"podcast":{"title":"Trauma Rewired","slug":"trauma-rewired-1367401","podcast_index_feed_id":1367401,"rss_url":"https://illuminatedwithjennifer.libsyn.com/rss","website_url":"https://www.podpage.com/trauma-rewired/","image_url":"https://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/7/1/6/3/716313e8a1aea0895f2e77a3093c12a1/TraumaRewired.podcastart-20220428-gpmwh6runm.png","author":"Elisabeth Kristof & Jennifer Wallace","episode_count":285,"summary":"The Podcast that teaches you about your nervous system, how trauma gets stored in the body and what you can do to heal.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/trauma-rewired-1367401"},"episode":{"title":"When Social Anxiety Is Actually a Complex Trauma Response","slug":"when-social-anxiety-is-actually-a-complex-trauma-response","published_at":"2026-05-25T13:29:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/trauma-rewired-1367401/when-social-anxiety-is-actually-a-complex-trauma-response","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/trauma-rewired-1367401","url":"https://www.rewiretrial.com","audio_url":"https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/illuminatedwithjennifer/S5_E43__Social_Anxiety_-_CPmp3.mp3?dest-id=2428643","summary":"Social anxiety is often framed as shyness, insecurity, or fear of judgment. But for many people living with complex trauma, social anxiety is a nervous system output shaped by chronic relational stress, sensory overwhelm, hypervigilance, masking, shame, and learned survival patterns. In this episode of Trauma Rewired, Jennifer Wallace and Elisabeth Kristof explore how complex trauma changes social engagement, why connection can feel exhausting, the role of the inner critic and toxic shame, sensory processing, nervous system overload, people pleasing, social fatigue, masking, emotional suppression, and post-traumatic growth. We discuss why awareness alone does not create change, how nervous system rehabilitation supports healing, and what becomes possible when safety, capacity, and authentic expression begin to grow. If social situations leave you drained, overthinking, scanning for danger, withdrawing, overperforming, or feeling exhausted afterward, this conversation offers a new lens for understanding why. Chapters 0:00 - Social Anxiety as a Full Nervous System Output 0:36 - Welcome: Social Anxiety Through the Lens of Complex Trauma 1:30 - Elisabeth: Why She Never Identified as Having Social Anxiety 2:46 - The Post-Social Binge, the Crash, and What the Outputs Were Saying 4:03 - Jennifer: How Alcohol, Food, and Cannabis Got Her Through Social Situations 5:33 - Scanning the Room, Monitoring Everyone, and Masking It All 7:25 - What Shifting Capacity Actually Looked Like at a Recent Social Event 9:09 - Discernment vs Avoidance: Knowing Your Real Capacity 12:17 - The Neuroscience: Social Anxiety as a Protective Output 13:41 - How the Output Becomes the Input: The Spiral Loop 14:07 - Fight, Flight, Fawn, Freeze in Social Settings 16:07 - Why Masking Is Metabolically Costly…","meta_description":"Social anxiety is often framed as shyness, insecurity, or fear of judgment. But for many people living with complex trauma, social anxiety is a nervous sy…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2909,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/trauma-rewired-1367401/episodes/when-social-anxiety-is-actually-a-complex-trauma-response/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/trauma-rewired-1367401/when-social-anxiety-is-actually-a-complex-trauma-response.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}