{"podcast":{"title":"Three Percent","slug":"three-percent-7209360","podcast_index_feed_id":7209360,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/AMPH4526507048","website_url":"https://www.threepercentco.com","image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/d737ed50-63c0-11f1-b1d5-77a66e7ba8d1/image/7428685d6dcc79a5797711057e17a2d8.jpg?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Jamie & Blake","episode_count":56,"summary":"Welcome to Three Percent. This is your space if you’re on a journey of pursuing holistic masculinity, growing your emotional awareness, and cultivating deeper relationships and an authentic faith. We’re here to provide evidence-based guidance and proven strategies drawn from our experiences as therapists, friends, and mentors. We aren’t here to give you gimmicks or superficial “hacks.” We’re not telling you who to be, we're helping you uncover what gets in the way of being the man you want to be and offering you the authentic tools needed for tangible growth.","last_synced_at":"2026-06-15T16:20:13.195845+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/three-percent-7209360"},"episode":{"title":"How To Be Less Triggered with Dr. Kelly Flanagan","slug":"how-to-be-less-triggered-with-dr-kelly-flanagan","published_at":"2026-05-18T06:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/three-percent-7209360/how-to-be-less-triggered-with-dr-kelly-flanagan","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/three-percent-7209360","url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/AMPH8348751792.mp3","audio_url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/AMPH8348751792.mp3","summary":"Why do the people we love most have the ability to trigger us the fastest? In this conversation, Dr. Kelly Flanagan joins Jamie and Blake to explore what really happens when we move from connection into protection. Drawing from his new book, The Road Less Triggered, Kelly explains how our nervous systems react to perceived threats, why our hearts close in moments of conflict, and how we can learn to stay present instead of becoming defensive. Together, they unpack why anger is often a doorway into deeper emotions, how sadness gets blocked for many men, and why healing begins by asking not “What’s wrong with me?” but “What happened to me?” The conversation is practical, deeply compassionate, and full of memorable metaphors that make complex emotional dynamics easier to understand. If you’ve ever felt hijacked by your reactions, struggled to stay open in conflict, or wondered why small moments create such big responses, this episode offers a hopeful path toward greater calm, freedom, and connection. KEY TAKEAWAYS Why being triggered is normal—and doesn’t mean you’re broken How to move from protection mode back into connection mode Why anger often points to sadness underneath the surface What it means to restore your sense of choice in conflict How boundaries can be set with an open heart Why healing turns 30-day conflicts into 30-second recoveries CHAPTERS (00:00) Introducing Kelly Flanagan and The Road Less Triggered(05:00) Turning 30 days of conflict into 30 seconds(10:00) What it actually means to be triggered(14:00) Restoring your sense of choice(18:00) Why your nervous system thinks you’re in danger(22:00) Jamie’s story of trauma and non-consensual touch(27:00) Loneliness: feeling unseen, misunderstood, and unsupported(31:00) Calmness before connectedness(34:00) Ang…","meta_description":"Why do the people we love most have the ability to trigger us the fastest? In this conversation, Dr. Kelly Flanagan joins Jamie and Blake to explore what…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":3245,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/three-percent-7209360/episodes/how-to-be-less-triggered-with-dr-kelly-flanagan/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/three-percent-7209360/how-to-be-less-triggered-with-dr-kelly-flanagan.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}