{"podcast":{"title":"They Talk Sex","slug":"they-talk-sex-4113072","podcast_index_feed_id":4113072,"rss_url":"https://www.theytalksex.com/episodes?format=rss","website_url":"https://www.theytalksex.com/episodes/","image_url":"https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/60fce3f99bd62a2b2898da9e/1717046039637-9R38GM0GT3PH1SQBSOSB/ELLETHEYQ.png?format=1500w","author":"Elle Stanger,  CSE","episode_count":123,"summary":"Certified Sex Educator and adult entertainer Elle Stanger hosts weekly guests to discuss common sexuality topics, including non-monogamy, STI’s, sex education, jealousy, pleasure, relationships and more.","last_synced_at":"2026-06-16T16:17:53.317223+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/they-talk-sex-4113072"},"episode":{"title":"The Somatic Pleasure Episode","slug":"the-somatic-pleasure-episode","published_at":"2026-03-16T03:56:20+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/they-talk-sex-4113072/the-somatic-pleasure-episode","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/they-talk-sex-4113072","url":"https://www.theytalksex.com/episodes/f3t5jyjy77lyl3p-3g8xw-sf5fa-dmmyc-p3ekl-t2kc9-f8bsl-gsxa7-kpzw2-l5ety-s33w8-rldkd-7k692-jpr5f-2dtnh","audio_url":"https://static1.squarespace.com/static/60fce3f99bd62a2b2898da9e/t/69b778e8cc294970a00d42cf/1774822391197/TTSJHumeckyfinished.mp3","summary":"Our guest is a male provider of touch to women clients. He has worked as a surrogate partner, coach and more. Let's talk about clients, and attachment, and our own personal relationship tips and pitfalls. 2:00 a somatic approach to sex 4:00 better sex comes from body awareness 7:00 when it sucks to be 'in your body' 11:00 requirements for working as a surrogate 15:00 go explore! 19:00 some of us are drawn to sex work 18:00 male sw profiles from hell 22:00 why pay for it? 30:00 clients attaching to him 37:00 no dating at this time 40:00 sunlight and showering is key for me 44:00 orgasm retreat-events 48:00 upcoming events 52:00 aim to diversify and inform self, how? 55:00 sex tips and breathing FIND YOUR GUEST: JamesHumecky.com FIND YOUR HOST: stripperwriter.com See Elle’s $1 Behind-The-Scenes at Patreon.com/strangebedfellows This episode was sponsored by our friends at Nethe rlandsWax.com Co ndomania.com - THEYTALKSEX for a discounted first order! and Love-Blanket.com - 10% OFF with code THEYTALKSEX Please rate and review this podcast :)","meta_description":"Our guest is a male provider of touch to women clients. He has worked as a surrogate partner, coach and more. Let's talk about clients, and attachment, an…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":3480,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/they-talk-sex-4113072/episodes/the-somatic-pleasure-episode/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/they-talk-sex-4113072/the-somatic-pleasure-episode.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}