{"podcast":{"title":"The Wellness Driven Life Show","slug":"the-wellness-driven-life-show-6473421","podcast_index_feed_id":6473421,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/wellnessdrivenlife","website_url":"https://www.drivenlivin.com/","image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/b463f0ea-45bd-11ee-a472-6fe7c06e958a/image/6c6d558303e42ec3a4c1ecf3a93f767a.jpg?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"April Chavez","episode_count":385,"summary":"The Wellness Driven Life Show is a dynamic and engaging talk show that bridges the gap between science and lifestyle, redefining the future of living well Spiritually, Intellectually, and Physically. Join us for your wellness evening reset—live every Wednesday at 6 PM PST—with the world's top experts, scientists, pioneers, champions, and professionals sharing actionable paths to resilience and clarity. ​ We invite you to ride the wave of the future with host April Chavez, the Microphone Maven, as she guides thoughtful wellness seekers through real stories and science-backed insights powered by Driven Livin'. Your journey to wellness starts here, and it starts now—tune in to become part of the evolution of Driven Livin’!","last_synced_at":"2026-07-30T12:17:22.493291+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-wellness-driven-life-show-6473421"},"episode":{"title":"Why Are We Fighting? Trauma & Turning Conflict into Connection","slug":"why-are-we-fighting-trauma-turning-conflict-into-connection","published_at":"2026-03-19T01:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-wellness-driven-life-show-6473421/why-are-we-fighting-trauma-turning-conflict-into-connection","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-wellness-driven-life-show-6473421","url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/FPMN8209526395.mp3?updated=1773787647","audio_url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/FPMN8209526395.mp3?updated=1773787647","summary":"Ever walked away from a conversation thinking, \"That's not what I meant at all—how did it blow up so fast?\" On The Wellness Driven Life Show, April Chavez sits down with Dr. Patricia Timerman Barbosa da Silva—\"Dr. T\"—psychotherapist, author of Why Are We Fighting?, and founder of Advocate2Create. Drawing from her IAP Model—Intention, Action, Perception, which she calls a kind of \"Google Translate\" for communication—Dr. T helps couples, families, and individuals transform conflict into connection. Her work is shaped by a deeply personal story: immigrating to the U.S. at 14 without English, shifting from a planned medical career into psychotherapy, walking through suicide loss, and building a practice that serves grief, trauma survivors, and immigrants navigating legal evaluations. With over 12 years of experience, she offers research‑backed tools that honor both logic and the tender places inside us. In this episode, you'll explore: How the IAP Model explains why so many arguments aren't about the issue, but the gap between what we intend, what we do, and how it's perceived. Simple phrases and \"pre‑ambles\" that can de‑escalate tension and make it safer to say the hard thing. Why suicide grief feels so different from other losses—and how Dr. T learned to live and work after losing a close friend to suicide. The hidden emotional toll of immigration and starting over, and how trauma and identity loss can show up generations later. Practical, science‑informed strategies to build resilience after trauma and advocate for your needs without burning bridges. If you're tired of repeating the same fights—or anxious about hard conversations you need to have—this episode offers language, frameworks, and hope. Learn more about Dr. T & Advocate2Create: https://www.advocate2create.com…","meta_description":"Ever walked away from a conversation thinking, \"That's not what I meant at all—how did it blow up so fast?\" On The Wellness Driven Life Show, April Chavez…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1999,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-wellness-driven-life-show-6473421/episodes/why-are-we-fighting-trauma-turning-conflict-into-connection/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-wellness-driven-life-show-6473421/why-are-we-fighting-trauma-turning-conflict-into-connection.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}