{"podcast":{"title":"The Ugly Truth of Divorce","slug":"the-ugly-truth-of-divorce-7690600","podcast_index_feed_id":7690600,"rss_url":"https://audioboom.com/channels/5166049.rss","website_url":"https://audioboom.com/channels/5166049","image_url":"https://audioboom.com/i/43442986/s=1400x1400/el=1/rt=fill.png","author":"Samantha Boss","episode_count":29,"summary":"The Ugly Truth of Divorce is for parents navigating custody, conflict, and co-parenting with someone who makes everything harder than it needs to be. Hosted by Samantha Boss — divorce coach, parenting plan expert, and someone who’s lived through a high-conflict divorce — this podcast breaks down what actually matters: the mistakes parents don’t realize they’re making, the parenting plans that fail families long-term, and the decisions you only get one chance to get right. These are short, straight-to-the-point episodes focused on high-conflict divorce, court-ready parenting plans, and protecting your kids, your peace, and your future. No sugarcoating. No legal jargon. Just clarity—so you can know better, decide smarter, and move forward with confidence. Follow Samantha Boss: Website Facebook Instagram TikTok LinkedIn YouTube","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-ugly-truth-of-divorce-7690600"},"episode":{"title":"26: 4th of July Custody Schedule Mistakes in Parenting Plans","slug":"26-4th-of-july-custody-schedule-mistakes-in-parenting-plans","published_at":"2026-05-05T09:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-ugly-truth-of-divorce-7690600/26-4th-of-july-custody-schedule-mistakes-in-parenting-plans","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-ugly-truth-of-divorce-7690600","url":"https://audioboom.com/posts/8899291","audio_url":"https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/audioboom.com/posts/8899291.mp3?modified=1777983525&sid=5166049&source=rss","summary":"4th of July sounds fun until you're divorced. Then it's a shit show. I've read your parenting plans. I've seen what Larry the Lawyer put in there. One sentence. Sometimes not even a good one. \"4th of July shall be alternated annually.\" Cool. No start time. No end time. No overnight. No transportation plan. Nothing. And then July 3rd hits and you and your ex are going to war over details that should've been handled months ago. In this episode I'm ripping apart four real examples of 4th of July clauses that screw parents over every single year. The three-hour window that forces you to leave before fireworks even start. The one-liner with zero details. The plan with no transportation language. And the missing clause that lets your ex book a vacation right over your holiday. I'm also going off about splitting the day. Your kid is at the lake with their cousins having the best time and you gotta drag them out at 2 PM because your plan says switch. Meanwhile nobody else's kids have to leave. Just yours. Because of your divorce. Make it an overnight. Add buffer days. Put specific times. Stop assuming you and your ex will \"figure it out\" for 16 years. You won't. Here’s What You Can Actually Take Away: Three Hours is an Insult - 6 PM to 9 PM is not a holiday, it's a layover. One Sentence Protects Nothing - \"Alternated annually\" without times, overnights, or logistics is useless. Spell Out Transportation - Who picks up and who drops off or you will fight about it. Holidays Beat Vacations - Get that clause in writing or lose your holiday to a \"delayed flight.\" Buffer Days Save You - Start on the 3rd, end on the 5th, and watch the excuses disappear. Stop Splitting the Day - Your kids don't want to leave the party at 2 PM. Period. Write It Now - \"We'll figure it out\" is not a plan.…","meta_description":"4th of July sounds fun until you're divorced. Then it's a shit show. I've read your parenting plans. I've seen what Larry the Lawyer put in there. One sen…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1303,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-ugly-truth-of-divorce-7690600/episodes/26-4th-of-july-custody-schedule-mistakes-in-parenting-plans/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-ugly-truth-of-divorce-7690600/26-4th-of-july-custody-schedule-mistakes-in-parenting-plans.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}