{"podcast":{"title":"The Ugly Truth of Divorce","slug":"the-ugly-truth-of-divorce-7690600","podcast_index_feed_id":7690600,"rss_url":"https://audioboom.com/channels/5166049.rss","website_url":"https://audioboom.com/channels/5166049","image_url":"https://audioboom.com/i/43442986/s=1400x1400/el=1/rt=fill.png","author":"Samantha Boss","episode_count":29,"summary":"The Ugly Truth of Divorce is for parents navigating custody, conflict, and co-parenting with someone who makes everything harder than it needs to be. Hosted by Samantha Boss — divorce coach, parenting plan expert, and someone who’s lived through a high-conflict divorce — this podcast breaks down what actually matters: the mistakes parents don’t realize they’re making, the parenting plans that fail families long-term, and the decisions you only get one chance to get right. These are short, straight-to-the-point episodes focused on high-conflict divorce, court-ready parenting plans, and protecting your kids, your peace, and your future. No sugarcoating. No legal jargon. Just clarity—so you can know better, decide smarter, and move forward with confidence. Follow Samantha Boss: Website Facebook Instagram TikTok LinkedIn YouTube","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-ugly-truth-of-divorce-7690600"},"episode":{"title":"11: Stop Fighting About Who Picks Up The Kids: The Transportation Clause You Actually Need","slug":"11-stop-fighting-about-who-picks-up-the-kids-the-transportation-clause-you-actually-need","published_at":"2026-03-12T09:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-ugly-truth-of-divorce-7690600/11-stop-fighting-about-who-picks-up-the-kids-the-transportation-clause-you-actually-need","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-ugly-truth-of-divorce-7690600","url":"https://audioboom.com/posts/8870948","audio_url":"https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/audioboom.com/posts/8870948.mp3?modified=1773131622&sid=5166049&source=rss","summary":"Wanna know the one clause that's about to fuck up every single weekend? It's that bullshit line: \"parents will agree on transportation.\" Spoiler: you won't agree on a goddamn thing with your narcissistic ex. Your attorney threw this vague garbage in so you'd keep calling them back. Now you're stuck sending 45 texts every Thursday arguing about where the hell the exchange even is. Here's what happens: Your ex shows up whenever they feel like it. Claims they didn't know where to go. Says YOU were supposed to drive. Meanwhile, you rearranged everything, and they just... don't show. Then somehow YOU look like the problem because nothing was written down. Gaslighting with a legal loophole. In this episode, I'm breaking down exactly what needs to be in your transportation section. Who picks up. Who drops off. Exact addresses. Sick days. No school days. Summer. And whether your psycho ex gets to step onto your property or keeps their ass in the car. These details aren't overkill. This is war strategy. Your ex doesn't want convenience—they want control. Access to your life. To see who you're dating, what's in your driveway. You need to cut off their supply. Let's close this fucking loop. Let's build a transportation clause that actually works. Here’s What You Can Actually Take Away: Vague Transportation Clauses Create Weekly Wars - When your parenting plan says \"parents will agree,\" you'll spend every exchange arguing about who picks up, who drops off, and where it happens. I Plan for Three Exception Scenarios - Sick kids, no-school days, and summer break all eliminate school as an exchange point, so I make sure plans have alternatives for each. I Specify Exchange Locations and Conduct - In high conflict cases, I include where exchanges happen, whether parents stay in vehicles…","meta_description":"Wanna know the one clause that's about to fuck up every single weekend? It's that bullshit line: \"parents will agree on transportation.\" Spoiler: you won'…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":716,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-ugly-truth-of-divorce-7690600/episodes/11-stop-fighting-about-who-picks-up-the-kids-the-transportation-clause-you-actually-need/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-ugly-truth-of-divorce-7690600/11-stop-fighting-about-who-picks-up-the-kids-the-transportation-clause-you-actually-need.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}