{"podcast":{"title":"The Sabrina Zohar Show","slug":"the-sabrina-zohar-show-5994471","podcast_index_feed_id":5994471,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/NSR3235885942","website_url":"http://www.sabrinazohar.com","image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/14c5974c-d73c-11f0-ad06-7b62c83e4d93/image/32306b474b5a458e9d3a322e364c2a20.png?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Sabrina Zohar","episode_count":218,"summary":"The Sabrina Zohar Show is your no-BS guide to dating, relationships, and coming home to yourself. Hosted by @sabrina.zohar, this podcast dives deep into the realities of modern love, anxious attachment, and the personal growth it takes to build meaningful connections- not just with others, but with yourself. Formerly known as “Do The Work” the show is all about cutting through the noise. Whether you’re navigating dating burnout, relationship struggles, or learning how to stop overthinking every text, Sabrina brings raw, unfiltered conversations that challenge your patterns, shift your mindset, and help you reclaim your power. Because the real work isn’t just about finding the right person, it’s also about becoming the version of you that feels whole, secure, and unapologetically authentic. Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and watch on YouTube. A podcast on dating, anxiety, and doing the work to heal with @Sabrina.zohar. Instagram: @thesabrinazoharshow TikTok: @sabrina.zohar Instagram- @thesabrinazoharshow TikTok- @sabrina.zohar","last_synced_at":"2026-07-31T16:19:18.311833+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-sabrina-zohar-show-5994471"},"episode":{"title":"217: How to Sit In The Discomfort","slug":"217-how-to-sit-in-the-discomfort","published_at":"2026-07-31T07:01:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-sabrina-zohar-show-5994471/217-how-to-sit-in-the-discomfort","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-sabrina-zohar-show-5994471","url":"https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/traffic.megaphone.fm/RTKCE8402738231.mp3","audio_url":"https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/traffic.megaphone.fm/RTKCE8402738231.mp3","summary":"Certainty in dating is a fantasy. There is no milestone, not exclusivity, not \"I love you,\" not moving in, not marriage, that finally makes relationship anxiety go away. In this episode Sabrina breaks down why your brain would rather have a bad answer than no answer, how anxious attachment turns an unanswered text into a story about rejection, and why chasing, overthinking, testing, people pleasing, and checking your phone every five seconds are ways of managing anxiety rather than dating strategies. She also separates the two kinds of discomfort: walking on eggshells, accepting breadcrumbs, and tolerating mixed signals and inconsistency, versus asking for what you need, setting boundaries, saying no, and letting someone leave. Plus the tool of the week, evidence versus story, a simple practice for catching the narrative your brain invents when you do not have all the information. Secure people are not secure because they have certainty, they have capacity. Pre-order Sabrina's book coming out October 2026,⁠ \"Why Am I Like This?\"⁠ Get your free workbook and access to the companion course after pre-ordering 'Why Am I Like This?' by filling out the form at the bottom of the page at http://sabrinazohar.com/book Take the new and improved dating quiz! sabrinazohar.com/quiz If you’re ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  ⁠HERE!⁠ If you’re serious about changing your dating patterns instead of repeating them, the Art of Going Slow course helps you unlearn urgency, regulate your nervous system, and build real connection without rushing, chasing, or abandoning yourself ⁠HERE!⁠ Get Ad free ⁠HERE!⁠  Watch on Spotify. Spotify…","meta_description":"Certainty in dating is a fantasy. There is no milestone, not exclusivity, not \"I love you,\" not moving in, not marriage, that finally makes relationship a…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1792,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-sabrina-zohar-show-5994471/episodes/217-how-to-sit-in-the-discomfort/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-sabrina-zohar-show-5994471/217-how-to-sit-in-the-discomfort.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}