{"podcast":{"title":"The One You Feed | Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience & Purpose","slug":"the-one-you-feed-personal-growth-emotional-resilience-purpose-745331","podcast_index_feed_id":745331,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/GBLL2287897073","website_url":"https://art19.com/shows/the-one-you-feed-podcast","image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/1058c424-b043-11f0-ab96-ebbb629afec5/image/45d0ec13faf3af98c28fe9553f263cb1.jpeg?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Eric Zimmer, The One You Feed","episode_count":1014,"summary":"Build resilience. Cultivate self-compassion. Live with purpose. The One You Feed brings conversations with leading thinkers — James Clear, Susan Cain, Tara Brach, and more — to help you navigate life’s challenges and feed your good wolf. No perfection, just direction, insight, and the small, consistent actions that make a meaningful life.","last_synced_at":"2026-06-27T00:19:02.905235+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-one-you-feed-personal-growth-emotional-resilience-purpose-745331"},"episode":{"title":"Why Choosing Harmony Over Truth Often Leaves You With Neither | Dr. Rick Hanson","slug":"why-choosing-harmony-over-truth-often-leaves-you-with-neither-dr-rick-hanson","published_at":"2026-06-19T12:46:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-one-you-feed-personal-growth-emotional-resilience-purpose-745331/why-choosing-harmony-over-truth-often-leaves-you-with-neither-dr-rick-hanson","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-one-you-feed-personal-growth-emotional-resilience-purpose-745331","url":"https://s.gum.fm/s-6839ddc199c8e8acebe1aae7/traffic.megaphone.fm/GBLL2249199868.mp3","audio_url":"https://s.gum.fm/s-6839ddc199c8e8acebe1aae7/traffic.megaphone.fm/GBLL2249199868.mp3","summary":"In this episode, Dr. Rick Hanson explores why choosing harmony over truth in our relationships often leaves us with neither. Drawing on decades of experience as a psychologist, relationship expert, and mindfulness teacher, Rick shares practical wisdom for navigating conflict, communicating with greater skill, and building stronger connections with the people who matter most. Rick discusses the delicate balance between keeping the peace and speaking honestly, the power of empathy and healthy remorse, and how small moments of awareness can transform the way we relate to ourselves and others. Whether you’re navigating challenges with a partner, family member, friend, or colleague, this conversation offers simple yet profound practices for creating relationships built on honesty, understanding, and genuine connection. Feeling overwhelmed in your life? Check out ⁠Overwhelm is Optional ⁠— a 4-week email course that helps you feel calmer and more grounded without needing to do less. In under 10 minutes a day, you’ll learn simple mindset shifts (called “Still Points”) you can use right inside the life you already have. ⁠Sign up here for only $29!⁠ Key Takeaways: Cultivating positive mental states and emotional resilience Managing relationships effectively and resolving conflicts The importance of consciously choosing which qualities to nurture within ourselves The impact of savoring positive experiences for lasting change Balancing harmony and truth in relationships Practical strategies for admitting fault and fostering healing Understanding the dynamics of impact versus intent in communication The concept of “unilateral virtue” and focusing on personal growth Enhancing empathy and its role in improving relationships Frameworks for effective communication and transforming rela…","meta_description":"In this episode, Dr. Rick Hanson explores why choosing harmony over truth in our relationships often leaves us with neither. Drawing on decades of experie…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":4596,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-one-you-feed-personal-growth-emotional-resilience-purpose-745331/episodes/why-choosing-harmony-over-truth-often-leaves-you-with-neither-dr-rick-hanson/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-one-you-feed-personal-growth-emotional-resilience-purpose-745331/why-choosing-harmony-over-truth-often-leaves-you-with-neither-dr-rick-hanson.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}