{"podcast":{"title":"The Kink Consultant","slug":"the-kink-consultant-7008231","podcast_index_feed_id":7008231,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/faa89760/podcast/rss","website_url":"https://thekinkconsultant.com/","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/41953528/41953528-1755098082449-65db4b7abf064.jpg","author":"Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant","episode_count":96,"summary":"Welcome to The Kink Consultant podcast, where we’re turning up the heat on all things kink in dating, relationships, and pop culture! Join Amanda each week as she dishes out the juiciest stories, expert advice, and shares a sneak peek behind the bedroom door—with some amazing guests along for the ride. Whether you're just a little kink-curious, ready to spice things up, or a seasoned pro, there's something here for you! Expect fun, laughter, and a whole lot of eye-opening conversations as we explore the wild world of intimacy, kink, and those oh-so-intriguing D/s dynamics.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-31T00:20:07.834133+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-kink-consultant-7008231"},"episode":{"title":"Relationship Advice for Kinky Couples with Simone Milasas","slug":"relationship-advice-for-kinky-couples-with-simone-milasas","published_at":"2026-06-25T12:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-kink-consultant-7008231/relationship-advice-for-kinky-couples-with-simone-milasas","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-kink-consultant-7008231","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/the-kink-consultant/episodes/Relationship-Advice-for-Kinky-Couples-with-Simone-Milasas-e3l9r2h","audio_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/faa89760/podcast/play/122006033/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-5-26%2F426848472-44100-2-e6ecbd73adf3a.mp3","summary":"Kinky relationships and vanilla relationships might have more in common than you think. This week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda speaks with Simone Milasas, global facilitator, author, and creator of Access Consciousness, to talk about how the relationship advice she gives to vanilla couples applies just as powerfully to kinky relationships and BDSM dynamics. They cover the five elements of intimacy you need to build with yourself before you can offer them to a partner, the concept of a "creationship" and how it differs from a traditional relationship, and the one question that can either deepen your connection or finally give you both the clarity to move on. Tune in, get brutally honest with yourself, and find out what becomes possible in your kinky relationships when you stop telling yourself the story that's been keeping you stuck. Connect with Simone Milasas https://www.simonemilasas.com/ https://www.instagram.com/simonemilasas/ https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMNJfnEjT/ Connect with Amanda ⁠https://www.amandadames.com/⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/⁠ Book A Consult Call with Amanda ⁠https://www.amandadames.com/book-a-consult⁠ Download the BDSM Checklist Here: ⁠https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560⁠ Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: ⁠https://www.amandadames.com/store","meta_description":"Kinky relationships and vanilla relationships might have more in common than you think. This week on The Kink Consultant Podcast, Amanda speaks with Simon…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2460,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-kink-consultant-7008231/episodes/relationship-advice-for-kinky-couples-with-simone-milasas/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-kink-consultant-7008231/relationship-advice-for-kinky-couples-with-simone-milasas.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}