{"podcast":{"title":"The Kink Consultant","slug":"the-kink-consultant-7008231","podcast_index_feed_id":7008231,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/faa89760/podcast/rss","website_url":"https://thekinkconsultant.com/","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/41953528/41953528-1755098082449-65db4b7abf064.jpg","author":"Amanda Dames, The Kink Consultant","episode_count":96,"summary":"Welcome to The Kink Consultant podcast, where we’re turning up the heat on all things kink in dating, relationships, and pop culture! Join Amanda each week as she dishes out the juiciest stories, expert advice, and shares a sneak peek behind the bedroom door—with some amazing guests along for the ride. Whether you're just a little kink-curious, ready to spice things up, or a seasoned pro, there's something here for you! Expect fun, laughter, and a whole lot of eye-opening conversations as we explore the wild world of intimacy, kink, and those oh-so-intriguing D/s dynamics.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-31T00:20:07.834133+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-kink-consultant-7008231"},"episode":{"title":"Can Doms Be Brats? The Debate That Broke KinkTok. A Discussion On Kink Theory, BDSM and Power Exchange","slug":"can-doms-be-brats-the-debate-that-broke-kinktok-a-discussion-on-kink-theory-bdsm-and-power-exchange","published_at":"2026-02-19T11:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-kink-consultant-7008231/can-doms-be-brats-the-debate-that-broke-kinktok-a-discussion-on-kink-theory-bdsm-and-power-exchange","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-kink-consultant-7008231","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/the-kink-consultant/episodes/Can-Doms-Be-Brats--The-Debate-That-Broke-KinkTok--A-Discussion-On-Kink-Theory--BDSM-and-Power-Exchange-e3fa53g","audio_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/faa89760/podcast/play/115724848/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2026-1-19%2F418396932-44100-2-cd3529da44d13.mp3","summary":"Can doms be brats? Tripp Terrier says no, and the Internet lost its mind, and honestly he's not wrong. In this episode, I sit down with Tripp Terrier, power exchange content creator, kink theorist, and founder of Subspace, a free biweekly community support group for submissives and switches. We get into the brat-dom debate that's been haunting him for months, why submissives need to stop handing over all their power and actually show up 50%, and what consent really looks like before a scene even starts (hint: it's way more than a yes in the moment). Tripp also opens up about navigating social media as a straight white male dom, getting compared to Andrew Tate, his ADHD diagnosis, sobriety, and why the so-called old guard of kink needs to relax because the whole thing is newer than they think. This one is sharp, unfiltered, and the kind of conversation social media clips could never do justice. If power exchange theory is your thing, buckle up. Connect with Tripp Terrier https://trippterrier.com/ https://www.tiktok.com/@tripp.terrier https://www.instagram.com/trippunderme https://www.youtube.com/@trippterrier https://fetlife.com/TrippTerrier Connect with Amanda https://www.amandadames.com/ https://www.instagram.com/the_kinkconsultant/ Download the BDSM Checklist Here: https://www.amandadames.com/resource_redirect/landing_pages/2151620560 Join the Kinky Book Club: https://www.amandadames.com/offers/H3LbqfTw/checkout Courses and Resources to Help Your Kink Journey: https://www.amandadames.com/store Joins the Couples Retreat https://www.amandadames.com/BetaWaitlist","meta_description":"Can doms be brats? Tripp Terrier says no, and the Internet lost its mind, and honestly he's not wrong. In this episode, I sit down with Tripp Terrier, pow…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":3596,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-kink-consultant-7008231/episodes/can-doms-be-brats-the-debate-that-broke-kinktok-a-discussion-on-kink-theory-bdsm-and-power-exchange/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-kink-consultant-7008231/can-doms-be-brats-the-debate-that-broke-kinktok-a-discussion-on-kink-theory-bdsm-and-power-exchange.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}