{"podcast":{"title":"The Kevin Miller Podcast","slug":"the-kevin-miller-podcast-1066460","podcast_index_feed_id":1066460,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/GLSS8058688303","website_url":"https://www.kevinmiller.co","image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/ce7c16d0-a354-11ed-9f45-9b833919c7ef/image/4ee4c9c5d2a9184b98f876d4f92b251e.png?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Kevin Miller","episode_count":1695,"summary":"The big question - what is the meaning of life? The great quest - to find meaning in life. I devoted my life to filling all the roles, pursuing all the achievements, and engaging with all the relationships I thought would provide the greatest meaning to my life. Only to come to the reckoning that the world doesn't give meaning to my life. I do. Join me as I discuss how we make meaning from our lives and how we can satisfy ourselves in every moment, regardless of the circumstances. kevinmiller.co *Over 75 million downloads, 350 expert guests, 1,700 episodes...and the journey continues on the podcast evolution from 'The Ziglar Show' to 'The Self-Helpful Podcast' to 'What Drives You' to 'The Kevin Miller Podcast'...","last_synced_at":"2026-07-21T08:17:30.000848+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-kevin-miller-podcast-1066460"},"episode":{"title":"Discovering A More Authentic Self When We Can’t Discount The Influence of Our Upbringing w/ Renowned Marriage & Family Therapist Vienna Pharaon","slug":"discovering-a-more-authentic-self-when-we-can-t-discount-the-influence-of-our-upbringing-w-renowned-marriage-family-therapist-vienna-pharaon","published_at":"2026-03-27T13:05:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-kevin-miller-podcast-1066460/discovering-a-more-authentic-self-when-we-can-t-discount-the-influence-of-our-upbringing-w-renowned-marriage-family-therapist-vienna-pharaon","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-kevin-miller-podcast-1066460","url":"https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/cohst.app/pdcst/8V6C6E/pscrb.fm/rss/p/traffic.megaphone.fm/YAP8087897889.mp3?updated=1774617272","audio_url":"https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/cohst.app/pdcst/8V6C6E/pscrb.fm/rss/p/traffic.megaphone.fm/YAP8087897889.mp3?updated=1774617272","summary":"I have never wanted to give much credit to genetics or my upbringing. I wanted to feel, and really did, like I’m my own person. Until sometime in my 40s when I realized I kept repeating some patterns that weren’t helping me. Today I amaze myself at the impact our upbringing and family has on us. All of us. For better and worse, but as people so want to be their “authentic selves,” I wonder how fully authentic we can ever be. So…I have an expert. My guest and guide on this subject is Vienna Pharaon. She has a book called The Origins of You: How Breaking Family Patterns Can Liberate the Way We Live and Love. Vienna has been posting her insights, driven from thousands of patient encounters, on Instagram and has over 700k followers tuning in to find their authentic selves. Vienna Pharaon is a licensed marriage and family therapist and one of New York City’s most sought after relationship therapists. She has practiced therapy for almost 20 years and is the founder and owner of the group practice, Mindful Marriage and Family Therapy. Pharaon has been featured in The Economist, Netflix, Vice, and Motherly, and has led workshops for Peloton and Netflix, amongst others. Vienna has become a therapist that many other therapists look to for guidance. Sign up for your $1/month trial period at shopify.com/kevin Go to shipstation.com and use code KEVIN to start your free trial. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices","meta_description":"I have never wanted to give much credit to genetics or my upbringing. I wanted to feel, and really did, like I’m my own person. Until sometime in my 40s w…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":4520,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-kevin-miller-podcast-1066460/episodes/discovering-a-more-authentic-self-when-we-can-t-discount-the-influence-of-our-upbringing-w-renowned-marriage-family-therapist-vienna-pharaon/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-kevin-miller-podcast-1066460/discovering-a-more-authentic-self-when-we-can-t-discount-the-influence-of-our-upbringing-w-renowned-marriage-family-therapist-vienna-pharaon.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}