{"podcast":{"title":"The Jayson Gaddis Podcast","slug":"the-jayson-gaddis-podcast-745455","podcast_index_feed_id":745455,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/1034ef008/podcast/rss","website_url":"https://relationshipschool.com","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/43404722/43404722-1772479501929-d6f3bd4f93209.jpg","author":"Jayson Gaddis","episode_count":562,"summary":"The Jayson Gaddis Podcast explores marriage, fatherhood, spirituality, and emotional and relational leadership. Hosted by Founder, high performance coach, and author Jayson Gaddis, who has spent 20+ years helping people transform their most important relationships.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-29T22:19:49.346921+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-jayson-gaddis-podcast-745455"},"episode":{"title":"The Disservice of Reassurance - Jayson Gaddis - 542","slug":"the-disservice-of-reassurance-jayson-gaddis-542","published_at":"2025-09-03T11:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-jayson-gaddis-podcast-745455/the-disservice-of-reassurance-jayson-gaddis-542","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-jayson-gaddis-podcast-745455","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jaysongaddis/episodes/The-Disservice-of-Reassurance---Jayson-Gaddis---542-e37gfai","audio_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/1034ef008/podcast/play/107543314/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-7-29%2F406533629-44100-2-a78f784173b5b.mp3","summary":"Jayson breaks down the hidden problems with reassurance. What’s wrong with saying “it’s going to be okay”? When is reassurance actually appropriate, and when does it backfire? What makes reassurance a problem in coaching or therapy? Jayson explains what to say instead and why a deeper response is far more effective for real growth. Timestamps: 0:32 - What’s wrong with saying “it’s going to be okay”? 2:12 - When reassurance is appropriate 4:14 - The problem with reassurance as a coach or therapist 6:10 - What to say instead of “it’s going to be okay” Links: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Relationship School⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Jayson on social media: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Facebook⁠","meta_description":"Jayson breaks down the hidden problems with reassurance. What’s wrong with saying “it’s going to be okay”? When is reassurance actually appropriate, and w…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":572,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-jayson-gaddis-podcast-745455/episodes/the-disservice-of-reassurance-jayson-gaddis-542/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-jayson-gaddis-podcast-745455/the-disservice-of-reassurance-jayson-gaddis-542.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}