{"podcast":{"title":"The Hook Up","slug":"the-hook-up-1104031","podcast_index_feed_id":1104031,"rss_url":"https://www.abc.net.au/feeds/8681126/podcast.xml","website_url":"https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/programs/the-hook-up/","image_url":"https://live-production.wcms.abc-cdn.net.au/192e2d1b18cf6780553771017de58623.jpg?src","author":"triple j","episode_count":250,"summary":"The Hook Up is about love, sex and relationships. We answer your questions, learn things together, cry over heartbreak and normalise shit. Every Tuesday Dee and Pip debate your dating dilemmas and hear your cooked stories. Every Thursday it's the sex ed you never had — we call on an expert to go deep and find answers with Dee.","last_synced_at":"2026-08-01T22:22:05.070424+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-hook-up-1104031"},"episode":{"title":"How To Have The ‘What Are We?’ Chat w/ Erika Ettin","slug":"how-to-have-the-what-are-we-chat-w-erika-ettin","published_at":"2026-07-29T15:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-hook-up-1104031/how-to-have-the-what-are-we-chat-w-erika-ettin","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-hook-up-1104031","url":"https://www.abc.net.au/triplej/programs/the-hook-up/situationship-erika-ettin-what-are-we-chat-dating-advice/106966648","audio_url":"https://mediacore-live-production.akamaized.net/audio/02/mu/Z/tq.mp3","summary":"If you’re dating, hooking up with, talking to, or seeing someone but you don’t know where things are going and you don’t know how to bring it up… Dating coach and author Erika Ettin has got you! In this ep, she has some tough love for anyone in a situationship, and will help you have the exclusive/relationship chat. SHOW NOTES: Situationship Ep: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=17Qr9ovC2N0 Erika Ettin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alittlenudge/?hl=en DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.au The Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.","meta_description":"If you’re dating, hooking up with, talking to, or seeing someone but you don’t know where things are going and you don’t know how to bring it up… Dating c…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1357,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-hook-up-1104031/episodes/how-to-have-the-what-are-we-chat-w-erika-ettin/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-hook-up-1104031/how-to-have-the-what-are-we-chat-w-erika-ettin.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}