{"podcast":{"title":"The Grounded Union Podcast","slug":"the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500","podcast_index_feed_id":7220500,"rss_url":"https://feeds.transistor.fm/grounded-union-podcast","website_url":null,"image_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/yvFcpGS-sP4M0gjv2lBTKxTOGoVfr0XCCzefDPSCYKo/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8zZGRk/NWM4YjMzZDRhNjA0/ZjY1ZWVhMjNiNzA1/ZTdhZi5qcGc.jpg","author":"Brandon Doerksen","episode_count":37,"summary":"Welcome to the Grounded Union Podcast, hosted by Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen. In 2019, our marriage hit rock bottom—so close to divorce that we thought there was no way back. But through deep healing, transformation, and a relentless pursuit of something better, we didn’t just save our marriage—we created something more beautiful than we ever imagined. On our journey, we realized that the conventional advice from counselors, pastors, and mentors wasn’t enough. So, we set out on an uncharted path, searching for real, lasting change. Now, standing on the other side, we’ve mapped out the exact process that restored our love, trust, and connection—a process we weren’t given but one we discovered through lived experience. This podcast is our invitation to you: to walk this path with us, to challenge the norms, and to build a marriage that is passionate, open, honest, deeply connected, and full of life. No one told us it was possible—but we’re here to tell you: it absolutely is. Join us on this journey. It’s not just about saving your marriage—it’s about creating one that’s stronger, richer, and more alive than ever.","last_synced_at":"2026-08-01T00:20:32.101474+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500"},"episode":{"title":"When Is Divorce Your Only Option?","slug":"when-is-divorce-your-only-option","published_at":"2026-05-30T00:58:02+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500/when-is-divorce-your-only-option","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500","url":"https://groundedunionpodcast.transistor.fm/s4/1","audio_url":"https://media.transistor.fm/37c1631a/5417b0fd.mp3","summary":"In the Season 4 premiere of the Grounded Union Podcast , we dive deep into one of the hardest questions couples in crisis face. Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen break down their Predictors of Change framework: four concrete, action-based signs that tell you whether your spouse is genuinely committed to healing or just going through the motions. From radical honesty and breaking free from screens, to getting back into your body and systematically rewiring the brain's sexual thought patterns, this episode gives you a clear lens to cut through confusion and see reality for what it is. Our 2026 Grounded Union 2-Day Workshop: 📍San Diego, CA — In-person & virtual 📅 August 14th & 15th, 2026 Workshop for Couples: Tap here to grab your ticket Looking for immediate support in your marriage? The Marriage Crisis Roadmap: Download the free guide here! Grounded Union Couples App: Tap here to apply Save Your Marriage Webinar: Tap here to get lifetime access Follow us on social: @brandontalksmarriage , @caitlyn_doerksen & @groundedunion YouTube Show available here What we discussed: 00:00:00 – Welcome to Season 4: Brandon and Caitlyn introduce the season and frame today's topic — when divorce feels like the only option and how to know if change is really happening. 00:03:52 – Predictor of Change #1: Radical honesty and leaving denial — the essential first step where the betraying partner must fully see and own the impact of their actions. 00:05:40 – Secrets Are Not Honesty: Why partial truth and hidden memories destroy trust, and how the subconscious holds every detail ready to surface when someone is truly willing. 00:09:15 – Predictor of Change #2: Removing all entertainment and digital distractions to create the mental space needed for real healing and self-awareness. 00:12…","meta_description":"In the Season 4 premiere of the Grounded Union Podcast , we dive deep into one of the hardest questions couples in crisis face. Brandon and Caitlyn Doerks…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":3981,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500/episodes/when-is-divorce-your-only-option/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500/when-is-divorce-your-only-option.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}