{"podcast":{"title":"The Grounded Union Podcast","slug":"the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500","podcast_index_feed_id":7220500,"rss_url":"https://feeds.transistor.fm/grounded-union-podcast","website_url":null,"image_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/yvFcpGS-sP4M0gjv2lBTKxTOGoVfr0XCCzefDPSCYKo/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8zZGRk/NWM4YjMzZDRhNjA0/ZjY1ZWVhMjNiNzA1/ZTdhZi5qcGc.jpg","author":"Brandon Doerksen","episode_count":37,"summary":"Welcome to the Grounded Union Podcast, hosted by Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen. In 2019, our marriage hit rock bottom—so close to divorce that we thought there was no way back. But through deep healing, transformation, and a relentless pursuit of something better, we didn’t just save our marriage—we created something more beautiful than we ever imagined. On our journey, we realized that the conventional advice from counselors, pastors, and mentors wasn’t enough. So, we set out on an uncharted path, searching for real, lasting change. Now, standing on the other side, we’ve mapped out the exact process that restored our love, trust, and connection—a process we weren’t given but one we discovered through lived experience. This podcast is our invitation to you: to walk this path with us, to challenge the norms, and to build a marriage that is passionate, open, honest, deeply connected, and full of life. No one told us it was possible—but we’re here to tell you: it absolutely is. Join us on this journey. It’s not just about saving your marriage—it’s about creating one that’s stronger, richer, and more alive than ever.","last_synced_at":"2026-08-01T00:20:32.101474+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500"},"episode":{"title":"Rethinking Lust & Attraction","slug":"rethinking-lust-attraction","published_at":"2026-07-03T13:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500/rethinking-lust-attraction","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500","url":"https://groundedunionpodcast.transistor.fm/s4/6","audio_url":"https://media.transistor.fm/3465912e/1614556e.mp3","summary":"In this episode, we speak on one of the most controversial conversations in marriage: lust, attraction, and what it actually means to be \"wired\" a certain way. Brandon and Caitlyn dismantle the cultural and religious narratives telling men they are helplessly attracted to women who aren't their wives — and offer a completely different framework: attraction is connection. From the reticular activating system to social media's role in training the brain, to Caitlyn's unforgettable dinner-table role-play of the \"count to three\" rule, this episode is equal parts raw, funny, and deeply liberating. Brandon shares his own 30-day rewiring experience and what changed when he chose radical honesty over a lifetime of trained sexual brokenness. If you've been told that lust is your God-given burden to manage, this episode will challenge everything you thought you knew. Our 2026 Grounded Union 2-Day Workshop: 📍San Diego, CA — In-person & virtual 📅 August 14th & 15th, 2026 Workshop for Couples: Tap here to grab your ticket 🎟️ Looking for immediate support in your marriage? The Marriage Crisis Roadmap: Download the free guide here! Grounded Union Couples App: Tap here to apply Save Your Marriage Webinar: Tap here to get lifetime access Follow us on social: @brandontalksmarriage , @caitlyn_doerksen & @groundedunion YouTube Show available here What we discussed: 00:00:00 – Welcome to S4E6: Brandon introduces lust and attraction as their most controversial topic and frames the two cultural camps — the \"spiritual temptation\" lens and the \"men are just visual\" lens. 00:05:10 – Attraction is Connection: Caitlyn introduces the core argument that what we call attraction is actually rooted in connection, not physical appearance, using real stories of couples who weren't initially…","meta_description":"In this episode, we speak on one of the most controversial conversations in marriage: lust, attraction, and what it actually means to be \"wired\" a certain…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":3144,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500/episodes/rethinking-lust-attraction/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500/rethinking-lust-attraction.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}