{"podcast":{"title":"The Grounded Union Podcast","slug":"the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500","podcast_index_feed_id":7220500,"rss_url":"https://feeds.transistor.fm/grounded-union-podcast","website_url":null,"image_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/yvFcpGS-sP4M0gjv2lBTKxTOGoVfr0XCCzefDPSCYKo/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8zZGRk/NWM4YjMzZDRhNjA0/ZjY1ZWVhMjNiNzA1/ZTdhZi5qcGc.jpg","author":"Brandon Doerksen","episode_count":37,"summary":"Welcome to the Grounded Union Podcast, hosted by Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen. In 2019, our marriage hit rock bottom—so close to divorce that we thought there was no way back. But through deep healing, transformation, and a relentless pursuit of something better, we didn’t just save our marriage—we created something more beautiful than we ever imagined. On our journey, we realized that the conventional advice from counselors, pastors, and mentors wasn’t enough. So, we set out on an uncharted path, searching for real, lasting change. Now, standing on the other side, we’ve mapped out the exact process that restored our love, trust, and connection—a process we weren’t given but one we discovered through lived experience. This podcast is our invitation to you: to walk this path with us, to challenge the norms, and to build a marriage that is passionate, open, honest, deeply connected, and full of life. No one told us it was possible—but we’re here to tell you: it absolutely is. Join us on this journey. It’s not just about saving your marriage—it’s about creating one that’s stronger, richer, and more alive than ever.","last_synced_at":"2026-08-01T00:20:32.101474+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500"},"episode":{"title":"Processing Grief After Betrayal","slug":"processing-grief-after-betrayal","published_at":"2026-07-31T13:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500/processing-grief-after-betrayal","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500","url":"https://groundedunionpodcast.transistor.fm/s5/1","audio_url":"https://media.transistor.fm/46686cdb/38668303.mp3","summary":"In today’s episode of the Grounded Union Podcast , Brandon and Caitlyn open Season 5 with the raw reality of grief after betrayal. They break down the three major sources of pain for the betrayed spouse—the numbness of the partner who caused it, the ongoing waves of hidden lies, and the complete collapse of the life you thought you were living. They challenge the cultural pressure to “just get over it” and instead invite you to heal through the pain, release it in healthy ways, and create something new. You’ll walk away with simple, powerful practices and a reframing that turns grief into the very thing that can rebuild your marriage. Our 2026 Grounded Union 2-Day Workshop: 📍San Diego, CA — In-person &amp; virtual 📅 August 14th &amp; 15th, 2026 Workshop for Couples: Tap here to grab your ticket Looking for immediate support in your marriage? The Marriage Crisis Roadmap: Download the free guide here! Grounded Union Couples App: Tap here to apply Save Your Marriage Webinar: Tap here to get lifetime access Join the waitlist for the launch of my first book here . If this episode resonated with you, we'd love to hear from you! Leave a written review, take a screenshot, and email it to support@groundedunion.com — and we'll send you an exclusive unreleased episode on Intimacy After Betrayal . Follow us on social: @brandontalksmarriage , @caitlyn_doerksen &amp; @groundedunion YouTube Show available here What we discussed: 00:00 – Season 5 Kickoff: Brandon introduces the episode on processing grief after betrayal and mentions the upcoming San Diego workshop (happening in two weeks!). 02:03 – The First Area of Pain: The unique cruelty of being in the worst pain of your life while the person who caused it is completely emotionally numb and unreachable. 03:50 – Shattered Realities…","meta_description":"In today’s episode of the Grounded Union Podcast , Brandon and Caitlyn open Season 5 with the raw reality of grief after betrayal. They break down the thr…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2980,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500/episodes/processing-grief-after-betrayal/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500/processing-grief-after-betrayal.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}