{"podcast":{"title":"The Grounded Union Podcast","slug":"the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500","podcast_index_feed_id":7220500,"rss_url":"https://feeds.transistor.fm/grounded-union-podcast","website_url":null,"image_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/yvFcpGS-sP4M0gjv2lBTKxTOGoVfr0XCCzefDPSCYKo/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8zZGRk/NWM4YjMzZDRhNjA0/ZjY1ZWVhMjNiNzA1/ZTdhZi5qcGc.jpg","author":"Brandon Doerksen","episode_count":37,"summary":"Welcome to the Grounded Union Podcast, hosted by Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen. In 2019, our marriage hit rock bottom—so close to divorce that we thought there was no way back. But through deep healing, transformation, and a relentless pursuit of something better, we didn’t just save our marriage—we created something more beautiful than we ever imagined. On our journey, we realized that the conventional advice from counselors, pastors, and mentors wasn’t enough. So, we set out on an uncharted path, searching for real, lasting change. Now, standing on the other side, we’ve mapped out the exact process that restored our love, trust, and connection—a process we weren’t given but one we discovered through lived experience. This podcast is our invitation to you: to walk this path with us, to challenge the norms, and to build a marriage that is passionate, open, honest, deeply connected, and full of life. No one told us it was possible—but we’re here to tell you: it absolutely is. Join us on this journey. It’s not just about saving your marriage—it’s about creating one that’s stronger, richer, and more alive than ever.","last_synced_at":"2026-08-01T00:20:32.101474+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500"},"episode":{"title":"How Sexual Addiction Creates Insecure Men","slug":"how-sexual-addiction-creates-insecure-men","published_at":"2026-06-19T13:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500/how-sexual-addiction-creates-insecure-men","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500","url":"https://groundedunionpodcast.transistor.fm/s4/4","audio_url":"https://media.transistor.fm/c034b043/a85fb65f.mp3","summary":"This week on the Grounded Union Podcast , Brandon and Caitlyn unpack the real reason sexual addiction makes men insecure — and it's not what you'd expect. Brandon breaks down why blaming others for your addiction shrinks your sense of control over your entire life, and explains the energetic loop that masturbation and porn can never close, no matter how good it feels in the moment. They introduce two identities every man in recovery needs to embody at once — the man who wounded his wife, and the man most qualified on the planet to help her heal — and explain why convincing your spouse you've changed is actually a sign you haven't. If you've ever felt small, ashamed, or powerless after a betrayal came to light, this episode hands you the exact mindset shift that turns shame into radical ownership. Our 2026 Grounded Union 2-Day Workshop: 📍San Diego, CA — In-person & virtual 📅 August 14th & 15th, 2026 Workshop for Couples: Tap here to grab your ticket Looking for immediate support in your marriage? The Marriage Crisis Roadmap: Download the free guide here! Grounded Union Couples App: Tap here to apply Save Your Marriage Webinar: Tap here to get lifetime access Follow us on social: @brandontalksmarriage , @caitlyn_doerksen & @groundedunion YouTube Show available here What we discussed: 00:00:26 – Intro: Brandon introduces episode 4, framing how sexual addiction strips away a man's inner knowing, creates a hollow identity, and keeps him trapped in damage control. 00:01:53 – The Powerless Mentality and the Dog Analogy: Why shrinking back, getting small, and playing the victim after getting caught is the opposite of what real ownership looks like. 00:05:28 – 100% Responsibility, 100% Solution: How blaming others or your wife keeps you stuck and why owning everythi…","meta_description":"This week on the Grounded Union Podcast , Brandon and Caitlyn unpack the real reason sexual addiction makes men insecure — and it's not what you'd expect.…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2963,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500/episodes/how-sexual-addiction-creates-insecure-men/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500/how-sexual-addiction-creates-insecure-men.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}