{"podcast":{"title":"The Grounded Union Podcast","slug":"the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500","podcast_index_feed_id":7220500,"rss_url":"https://feeds.transistor.fm/grounded-union-podcast","website_url":null,"image_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/yvFcpGS-sP4M0gjv2lBTKxTOGoVfr0XCCzefDPSCYKo/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8zZGRk/NWM4YjMzZDRhNjA0/ZjY1ZWVhMjNiNzA1/ZTdhZi5qcGc.jpg","author":"Brandon Doerksen","episode_count":37,"summary":"Welcome to the Grounded Union Podcast, hosted by Brandon and Caitlyn Doerksen. In 2019, our marriage hit rock bottom—so close to divorce that we thought there was no way back. But through deep healing, transformation, and a relentless pursuit of something better, we didn’t just save our marriage—we created something more beautiful than we ever imagined. On our journey, we realized that the conventional advice from counselors, pastors, and mentors wasn’t enough. So, we set out on an uncharted path, searching for real, lasting change. Now, standing on the other side, we’ve mapped out the exact process that restored our love, trust, and connection—a process we weren’t given but one we discovered through lived experience. This podcast is our invitation to you: to walk this path with us, to challenge the norms, and to build a marriage that is passionate, open, honest, deeply connected, and full of life. No one told us it was possible—but we’re here to tell you: it absolutely is. Join us on this journey. It’s not just about saving your marriage—it’s about creating one that’s stronger, richer, and more alive than ever.","last_synced_at":"2026-08-01T00:20:32.101474+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500"},"episode":{"title":"Can Trust Be Rebuilt After Betrayal","slug":"can-trust-be-rebuilt-after-betrayal","published_at":"2026-06-05T13:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500/can-trust-be-rebuilt-after-betrayal","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500","url":"https://groundedunionpodcast.transistor.fm/s4/2","audio_url":"https://media.transistor.fm/08c97adb/736bd102.mp3","summary":"In this episode of the Grounded Union Podcast , we dive deep into what trust after betrayal actually requires — and it has nothing to do with timelines, accountability apps, or getting the hard conversations to stop. Brandon and Caitlyn unpack why the \"good boy\" cycle — remove a few things, check some boxes, get your privileges back — kept their marriage stuck for five years. They introduce the iceberg: the idea that most betraying spouses can only see 10% of their story, and why that hidden 90% will keep running the relationship until it's fully faced. Caitlyn also shares the raw story of sitting across from a counselor who told her Brandon was a pathological liar she'd never be able to trust — and how she went from that moment to experiencing 100% trust in her husband today. Trust isn’t rebuilt with time or words. It’s rebuilt with concrete action. Our 2026 Grounded Union 2-Day Workshop: 📍San Diego, CA — In-person & virtual 📅 August 14th & 15th, 2026 Workshop for Couples: Tap here to grab your ticket Looking for immediate support in your marriage? The Marriage Crisis Roadmap: Download the free guide here! Grounded Union Couples App: Tap here to apply Save Your Marriage Webinar: Tap here to get lifetime access Follow us on social: @brandontalksmarriage , @caitlyn_doerksen & @groundedunion YouTube Show available here What we discussed: 00:00:00 – Welcome to Season 4 Episode 2: Brandon and Caitlyn introduce the core question — can trust actually be rebuilt after betrayal? 00:01:46 –The Privilege-Recovery Trap: Why the first five years of Brandon and Caitlyn's marriage were spent playing the \"good boy gets his privileges back\" game — and why it never worked. 00:04:46 – Handing Over the Driver's License: Brandon compares internet and social media addiction to…","meta_description":"In this episode of the Grounded Union Podcast , we dive deep into what trust after betrayal actually requires — and it has nothing to do with timelines, a…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":3031,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500/episodes/can-trust-be-rebuilt-after-betrayal/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500/can-trust-be-rebuilt-after-betrayal.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}