{"podcast":{"title":"The Forgotten Podcast","slug":"the-forgotten-podcast-435207","podcast_index_feed_id":435207,"rss_url":"https://theforgottenpodcast.libsyn.com/rss%20","website_url":"http://www.theforgottenpodcast.org","image_url":"https://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/f/c/b/4/fcb4a1be4d8d7b4d40be95ea3302a6a1/The-Forgotten-Podcast-Cover-July-2022.jpg","author":"The Forgotten Initiative","episode_count":319,"summary":"We want to see people everywhere supporting the foster care community and experiencing Jesus together. So, in this podcast, we are sharing the stories of the foster care community to bring awareness that leads to action!","last_synced_at":"2026-06-22T14:20:28.865388+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-forgotten-podcast-435207"},"episode":{"title":"Loving My Distanced Adult Child (w/Renaut van der Riet) Ep. 292","slug":"loving-my-distanced-adult-child-w-renaut-van-der-riet-ep-292","published_at":"2026-04-13T09:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-forgotten-podcast-435207/loving-my-distanced-adult-child-w-renaut-van-der-riet-ep-292","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-forgotten-podcast-435207","url":"http://theforgottenpodcast.libsyn.com/loving-my-distanced-adult-child-wrenaut-van-der-riet-ep-292","audio_url":"https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/theforgottenpodcast/The_Forgotten_Podcast_-_Dangerous_Chapter_Safe_Story_-_When_an_Adult_Child_Rejects_You_with_Renaut_van_Der_Riet_-_Mix.mp3?dest-id=400521","summary":"In this episode of The Forgotten Podcast , Jami sits down with Renaut van der, Lead Pastor of Mosaic Church in Orlando, Florida, to discuss the difficult and often unspoken challenge faced by adoptive and foster parents: what to do when your adult child rejects you . Renaut and his wife, Brooke, are parents to eight children, including four adopted from Ethiopia. Renaut shares the deeply personal and painful experience of having two adopted daughters cut off relationship and label the family as \"toxic\" and \"abusive\". The conversation frames this experience using the prodigal child paradigm to provide a biblical framework for navigating this complexity. Renaut discusses the tension between pursuing and letting go, distinguishing between normal rebellion and the child wanting the parents' provision (\"stuff\") but not the relationship (\"you\"). He offers practical guidance on setting boundaries, parenting the children who remain in the home, and maintaining an open heart while trusting God with the timing of potential reconciliation, reminding listeners that they are in a \"safe story, just a dangerous chapter\". About the Guest Renaut van der is the Lead Pastor of Mosaic Church in Orlando, Florida, which he and his wife, Brooke, planted in 2002. Together, they have eight children, four of whom were adopted from Axo, Ethiopia. Renaut is transparent about his family’s experience with two adult daughters cutting off contact, prompting him to find a functional, biblical approach to dealing with the personal rejection and pursuit of a prodigal child. In This Episode - The personal experience of two adopted daughters rejecting the family and creating a narrative of abuse and toxicity. - How the \"prodigal child\" paradigm helps parents navigate personal rejection and pursuit with a…","meta_description":"In this episode of The Forgotten Podcast , Jami sits down with Renaut van der, Lead Pastor of Mosaic Church in Orlando, Florida, to discuss the difficult…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":3418,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-forgotten-podcast-435207/episodes/loving-my-distanced-adult-child-w-renaut-van-der-riet-ep-292/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-forgotten-podcast-435207/loving-my-distanced-adult-child-w-renaut-van-der-riet-ep-292.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}