{"podcast":{"title":"The Erotic Realm","slug":"the-erotic-realm-7139672","podcast_index_feed_id":7139672,"rss_url":"https://rss.art19.com/the-erotic-realm","website_url":"https://art19.com/shows/the-erotic-realm","image_url":"https://content.production.cdn.art19.com/images/c8/df/e5/1d/c8dfe51d-b319-4690-8c18-e71dfb666e32/ba9d1fa4b6d448f5dcf459d96e0e9a2e3b4dbc5267f63db72f73eaa40d59bf89bc79599c3934c3e6eb875a3063c25a791c457862e5d28eca6c6b21ddae31a7fc.jpeg","author":"Emma | Psychology of Desire","episode_count":117,"summary":"The Erotic Realm is the world's leading Erotic Psychology podcast, exploring the psychology of desire, kink, intimacy and erotic identity through conversations with kinksters, researchers, educators and experts. Hosted by Emma , Sexologist and founder of Psychology of Desire , each episode explores the erotic realm of an individual one on one with a deep dive into their erotic psychology. Join Emma and discover what your desires might be trying to teach you. www.psychologyofdesire.com","last_synced_at":"2026-07-11T02:19:37.846894+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-erotic-realm-7139672"},"episode":{"title":"#100 The Choice to Be Owned: Slave Psychology with Daniika","slug":"100-the-choice-to-be-owned-slave-psychology-with-daniika","published_at":"2026-05-19T14:30:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-erotic-realm-7139672/100-the-choice-to-be-owned-slave-psychology-with-daniika","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-erotic-realm-7139672","url":"https://rss.art19.com/episodes/2d4b37f6-b123-4450-a8f9-5719bd6303c2.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0","audio_url":"https://rss.art19.com/episodes/2d4b37f6-b123-4450-a8f9-5719bd6303c2.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0","summary":"What happens when surrender isn’t weakness — but identity? In this episode I’m joined by Daniika — a submissive, masochist, and self-described slave exploring the psychology of power, pain, and total surrender. We explore: The psychology of masochism and meaning in pain. What “slave” and “ownership” actually mean in BDSM. 24/7 power exchange in real life. Kink, identity, and the idea of orientation. Neurodivergence, structure, and erotic regulation. Research article:  The Kink Orientation Scale: Developing and Validating a Measure of Kink Desire, Practice, and Identity. VOTE for The Erotic Realm to win best podcast  here . Thanks for voting! Supporters of The Erotic Realm: Firm Tech for sexual health tracking  here . Splash blanket for intimacy-friendly comfort  here . ProDx Health at home STI testing  here . Innovative Sex Tech: Lioness  here . Kiiroo  here . Luxus  here . Lovense  here . Science-backed libido support: Flow supplement  here . Desire supplement  here . Interested in Kinky Speed Dating?  ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠ The Erotic Realm  now has it’s own  merchandise!  If you love the show and want to support it check it out  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Visit  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠psychologyofdesire.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  to apply to be on the podcast. I'd love to chat to you. Thanks for listening! Stay perverted, Emma See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .","meta_description":"What happens when surrender isn’t weakness — but identity? In this episode I’m joined by Daniika — a submissive, masochist, and self-described slave explo…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":3783,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-erotic-realm-7139672/episodes/100-the-choice-to-be-owned-slave-psychology-with-daniika/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-erotic-realm-7139672/100-the-choice-to-be-owned-slave-psychology-with-daniika.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}