{"podcast":{"title":"The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten","slug":"the-dr-psych-mom-show-with-clinical-psychologist-dr-samantha-rodman-whiten-4776497","podcast_index_feed_id":4776497,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/7c1982ec/podcast/rss","website_url":"Drpsychmom.com","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/20720467/20720467-1757342737506-a6cca4e4811d8.jpg","author":"Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten","episode_count":708,"summary":"Subscribe for over 220 more episodes! https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe Clinical psychologist Dr Samantha Rodman Whiten (DrPsychMom.com) discusses relationships, sex, family & parenting with no BS. Unpopular opinions: don't overfocus on kids, physical touch is the most important love language, and marriage issues are due to BOTH partners. Therapy/coaching with me or my team: bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. NOT medical advice. Email samantha@drpsychmom.com Join my secret FB group : https://www.facebook.com/groups/drpsychmom!","last_synced_at":"2026-07-02T22:21:16.400920+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dr-psych-mom-show-with-clinical-psychologist-dr-samantha-rodman-whiten-4776497"},"episode":{"title":"Why Trying To Optimize Your Sex Life Doesn't Work","slug":"why-trying-to-optimize-your-sex-life-doesn-t-work","published_at":"2026-05-20T11:09:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dr-psych-mom-show-with-clinical-psychologist-dr-samantha-rodman-whiten-4776497/why-trying-to-optimize-your-sex-life-doesn-t-work","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dr-psych-mom-show-with-clinical-psychologist-dr-samantha-rodman-whiten-4776497","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/episodes/Why-Trying-To-Optimize-Your-Sex-Life-Doesnt-Work-e3j6u2q","audio_url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/APO8655860348.mp3","summary":"Why does optimizing your sex life never work, even though it works in other aspects of your life? A wake up call to the high achieving men who just can't make their wife do what they wish she would, despite how "it would be better for both of us." My newest venture, including ALL BRAND NEW POSTS EVERY DAY: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/drpsychmom/posts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join my awesome Midlife Women's Group here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠drpsychmom.com/mwg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get over 220 more episodes, most recently "Stop Scrolling, You're Wasting Your Life!" subscribe here! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For my secret Facebook group, the "best money I've ever spent" according to numerous members: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/drpsychmom⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For coaching from DPM, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For therapy or coaching, contact us at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠","meta_description":"Why does optimizing your sex life never work, even though it works in other aspects of your life? A wake up call to the high achieving men who just can't…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":873,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-dr-psych-mom-show-with-clinical-psychologist-dr-samantha-rodman-whiten-4776497/episodes/why-trying-to-optimize-your-sex-life-doesn-t-work/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dr-psych-mom-show-with-clinical-psychologist-dr-samantha-rodman-whiten-4776497/why-trying-to-optimize-your-sex-life-doesn-t-work.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}