{"podcast":{"title":"The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten","slug":"the-dr-psych-mom-show-with-clinical-psychologist-dr-samantha-rodman-whiten-4776497","podcast_index_feed_id":4776497,"rss_url":"https://anchor.fm/s/7c1982ec/podcast/rss","website_url":"Drpsychmom.com","image_url":"https://d3t3ozftmdmh3i.cloudfront.net/staging/podcast_uploaded_nologo/20720467/20720467-1757342737506-a6cca4e4811d8.jpg","author":"Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten","episode_count":708,"summary":"Subscribe for over 220 more episodes! https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe Clinical psychologist Dr Samantha Rodman Whiten (DrPsychMom.com) discusses relationships, sex, family & parenting with no BS. Unpopular opinions: don't overfocus on kids, physical touch is the most important love language, and marriage issues are due to BOTH partners. Therapy/coaching with me or my team: bestlifebehavioralhealth.com. NOT medical advice. Email samantha@drpsychmom.com Join my secret FB group : https://www.facebook.com/groups/drpsychmom!","last_synced_at":"2026-07-02T22:21:16.400920+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dr-psych-mom-show-with-clinical-psychologist-dr-samantha-rodman-whiten-4776497"},"episode":{"title":"Blaming Your Husband For Your Sex Life Is Misguided And In Many Cases, Anti-Feminist","slug":"blaming-your-husband-for-your-sex-life-is-misguided-and-in-many-cases-anti-feminist","published_at":"2026-04-29T11:10:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dr-psych-mom-show-with-clinical-psychologist-dr-samantha-rodman-whiten-4776497/blaming-your-husband-for-your-sex-life-is-misguided-and-in-many-cases-anti-feminist","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dr-psych-mom-show-with-clinical-psychologist-dr-samantha-rodman-whiten-4776497","url":"https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/episodes/Blaming-Your-Husband-For-Your-Sex-Life-Is-Misguided-And-In-Many-Cases--Anti-Feminist-e3hvaaa","audio_url":"https://traffic.megaphone.fm/APO6246227498.mp3","summary":"There is some idea now that any woman with a loving husband wants sex. This could not be less true. Women may not want sex for all kinds of reasons that have zero to do with their husbands. They may be tired or stressed NO MATTER HOW MUCH HE DOES IN THE HOUSE (including 100% of the chores which I've seen many times), they may just have lower drives (remember there's a normal distribution of most every trait), they may have depression or anxiety, they may be older and at a changed hormonal stage, they may have a trauma history, they may be on medications that impact drive like SSRI's (or GLP-1 blockers as new research shows), they may have a condition with fatigue as a symptom like anemia or of course chronic fatigue. In fact, it's ANTI FEMINIST to say that a woman's drive would be solely due to a man, as women are not a purely reactive monolith. They are individuals with their OWN ISSUES AND PREFERENCES! My newest venture, including ALL BRAND NEW POSTS EVERY DAY: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/drpsychmom/posts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Join my awesome Midlife Women's Group here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠drpsychmom.com/mwg⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get over 200 more episodes, most recently \"You Don't Have To Attend Every Argument You're Invited To,\" subscribe here! ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/subscribe⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For my secret Facebook group, the \"best money I've ever spent\" according to numerous members: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/drpsychmom⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ For coaching from DPM, visit ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.drpsychmom.…","meta_description":"There is some idea now that any woman with a loving husband wants sex. This could not be less true. Women may not want sex for all kinds of reasons that h…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":677,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-dr-psych-mom-show-with-clinical-psychologist-dr-samantha-rodman-whiten-4776497/episodes/blaming-your-husband-for-your-sex-life-is-misguided-and-in-many-cases-anti-feminist/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dr-psych-mom-show-with-clinical-psychologist-dr-samantha-rodman-whiten-4776497/blaming-your-husband-for-your-sex-life-is-misguided-and-in-many-cases-anti-feminist.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}