{"podcast":{"title":"The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast","slug":"the-divorce-survival-guide-podcast-546264","podcast_index_feed_id":546264,"rss_url":"https://feeds.libsyn.com/115215/rss","website_url":"https://www.kateanthony.com/","image_url":"https://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/3/3/9/e/339e6969c86dd1fbd959afa2a1bf1c87/Final.png","author":"Kate Anthony","episode_count":381,"summary":"On the Divorce Survival Guide Podcast we have open and honest conversations about co-parenting, separation, divorce, and the hardest question of all, should you stay or should you go? Hosted by Kate Anthony, your Divorce Survival Guide.","last_synced_at":"2026-06-25T14:20:12.368402+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-divorce-survival-guide-podcast-546264"},"episode":{"title":"Episode 367: Rituals for Divorce Grief with Barri Leiner Grant","slug":"episode-367-rituals-for-divorce-grief-with-barri-leiner-grant","published_at":"2026-04-30T04:30:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-divorce-survival-guide-podcast-546264/episode-367-rituals-for-divorce-grief-with-barri-leiner-grant","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-divorce-survival-guide-podcast-546264","url":"https://divorcesurvivalguide.libsyn.com/episode-367-rituals-for-divorce-grief-with-barri-leiner-grant","audio_url":"https://pscrb.fm/rss/p/prfx.byspotify.com/e/traffic.libsyn.com/secure/divorcesurvivalguide/DSG-367.mp3?dest-id=653878","summary":"So much of what women contend with during divorce is really intense grief. Sometimes they don't name it that or even realize that's what's happening, but that is what's happening. Barri Leiner Grant, founder and Chief Grief Officer™ of The Memory Circle, is back with me to keep the conversation going about grieving before, during, and after divorce. For those new to Barri, her community and creative space is created for those learning to live with loss. She's a highly respected grief specialist, writer, coach, and educator, and she leads transformative gatherings, retreats, and workshops that explore grief tending tools, rituals, and practices that foster connection, healing, and hope. In this conversation, Barri and I get into why we're still such a grief-denying society when it comes to non-death loss, and we spend a good chunk of time on rituals. Because here's the thing: there is no funeral for a divorce. No burial, nothing formal. So we talk about how women can make their own. Like burying a copy of your decree (just not the only one, you'll need it). Lighting a candle on the anniversary. Writing yourself a letter. Painting the inside of your front door hot pink. Getting the tattoo. Whatever helps you name the loss, move the energy, and reclaim the space. What you'll hear about in this episode: Why women become their own judge and jury about naming non-death loss (1:54) Why grieving a divorce feels confusing even if you're the one who asked for it, and why the future you imagined is still a real loss (3:26) What Barri's own divorce (layered on top of losing her mom) taught her about asking for support (5:06) Why writing is one of the most accessible grief tending tools (20:02) Grief tending, self-compassion, and why it's not a just bath with salts (26:26) Why maki…","meta_description":"So much of what women contend with during divorce is really intense grief. Sometimes they don't name it that or even realize that's what's happening, but…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2788,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-divorce-survival-guide-podcast-546264/episodes/episode-367-rituals-for-divorce-grief-with-barri-leiner-grant/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-divorce-survival-guide-podcast-546264/episode-367-rituals-for-divorce-grief-with-barri-leiner-grant.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}