{"podcast":{"title":"The Dad Manual","slug":"the-dad-manual-7554137","podcast_index_feed_id":7554137,"rss_url":"https://feeds.transistor.fm/the-dad-manual","website_url":null,"image_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/PcJcfVx2Sw5jO2OtWhkgYMldD7j3a6caz7IkVMF6G0k/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8zMWVh/NTk0NDViNmUyYWZl/Zjk4NDk3NWVjMWEy/NWYxYi5wbmc.jpg","author":"Andy Milad","episode_count":30,"summary":"The Dad Manual is a fatherhood podcast hosted by Tony Cooper, featuring honest conversations with dads about the real, unfiltered journey of parenthood. This parenting podcast for dads explores everything from the excitement of being a first time dad to navigating the teenage years. As one of the best podcasts for expecting dads and experienced fathers alike, we dive deep into what it actually means to be a modern dad—the struggles, the growth, the mistakes, and the moments that change you forever. Whether you're looking for a new dad podcast or seasoned parenting wisdom, this family podcast delivers the honest guidance you won't find in books.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-14T22:17:03.182957+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dad-manual-7554137"},"episode":{"title":"Ep 11: Co-Parenting as a Superpower: Raising Kids Through Conscious Separation","slug":"ep-11-co-parenting-as-a-superpower-raising-kids-through-conscious-separation","published_at":"2026-03-10T11:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dad-manual-7554137/ep-11-co-parenting-as-a-superpower-raising-kids-through-conscious-separation","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dad-manual-7554137","url":"https://share.transistor.fm/s/2c831058","audio_url":"https://media.transistor.fm/2c831058/dc375d5a.mp3","summary":"Your kid isn't just testing your patience — they're revealing everything you still need to heal. Shane Metcalf is a father who made a decision most dads never do: to do the deep inner work before the hard moments arrived. His daughter Ava is almost six, and Shane hasn't yelled at her once. Not because she's an easy kid — she's strong-willed, irrational, and negotiates like a seasoned attorney — but because Shane made an internal decision rooted in years of personal growth, therapy, and a clear-eyed look at the cycles he wanted to break. In this conversation with host Tony Cooper, Shane opens up about growing up in a household full of verbal anger, what it took to consciously choose a different path, and how co-parenting after divorce can actually become one of the most powerful gifts you give your child. He shares the thought experiments he uses when frustration peaks, the philosophy behind gentle-but-boundaried parenting, and why roughhousing with your daughter matters just as much as with your son. This is an honest, raw, and deeply practical conversation for any dad serious about showing up differently. Key Takeaways: The relationship you build with your child now — at 5 or 6 — directly shapes the trust they'll have in you at 16 and 36. Your child's triggers are a mirror for your own unhealed wounds. That's the gift, not the inconvenience. Yelling doesn't work. The Inuit understood it — when you raise your voice, kids stop listening and stop trusting. Breaking generational cycles is one of the greatest things a father can do. Shane's dad broke physical abuse. Shane broke verbal anger. Co-parenting done right — with shared values and mutual respect — can be one of the most functional family structures available. Use the \"last day\" thought experiment: imagine this is…","meta_description":"Your kid isn't just testing your patience — they're revealing everything you still need to heal. Shane Metcalf is a father who made a decision most dads n…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":3018,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-dad-manual-7554137/episodes/ep-11-co-parenting-as-a-superpower-raising-kids-through-conscious-separation/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dad-manual-7554137/ep-11-co-parenting-as-a-superpower-raising-kids-through-conscious-separation.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}