{"podcast":{"title":"The Dad Manual","slug":"the-dad-manual-7554137","podcast_index_feed_id":7554137,"rss_url":"https://feeds.transistor.fm/the-dad-manual","website_url":null,"image_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/PcJcfVx2Sw5jO2OtWhkgYMldD7j3a6caz7IkVMF6G0k/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS8zMWVh/NTk0NDViNmUyYWZl/Zjk4NDk3NWVjMWEy/NWYxYi5wbmc.jpg","author":"Andy Milad","episode_count":30,"summary":"The Dad Manual is a fatherhood podcast hosted by Tony Cooper, featuring honest conversations with dads about the real, unfiltered journey of parenthood. This parenting podcast for dads explores everything from the excitement of being a first time dad to navigating the teenage years. As one of the best podcasts for expecting dads and experienced fathers alike, we dive deep into what it actually means to be a modern dad—the struggles, the growth, the mistakes, and the moments that change you forever. Whether you're looking for a new dad podcast or seasoned parenting wisdom, this family podcast delivers the honest guidance you won't find in books.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-14T22:17:03.182957+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dad-manual-7554137"},"episode":{"title":"Ep 10: Before the Baby Arrives: Real Talk From a Soon-to-Be Father","slug":"ep-10-before-the-baby-arrives-real-talk-from-a-soon-to-be-father","published_at":"2026-03-03T12:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dad-manual-7554137/ep-10-before-the-baby-arrives-real-talk-from-a-soon-to-be-father","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dad-manual-7554137","url":"https://share.transistor.fm/s/de31c969","audio_url":"https://media.transistor.fm/de31c969/f4be51be.mp3","summary":"What does it look like to become a father through the windshield — not the rearview mirror? Tony Cooper sits down with Brad Barnes, a transformational trainer and dad-to-be at 12 weeks, for a conversation unlike any other on this fatherhood podcast. Brad shares the raw, unfiltered experience of stepping into fatherhood for the second time — carrying the grief of a pregnancy loss, the wisdom of a decade of personal growth, and a fierce commitment to showing up differently. This is fatherhood in real time, not in hindsight. Key Takeaways: Choosing your partner is also choosing to become a dad — and that decision carries enormous weight Grief from pregnancy loss doesn't fully \"heal,\" but it can become a source of meaning and forward motion The gap between who you are today and who you need to be as a father is something you can close — intentionally At 24, Brad exploded his life overnight when he found out he was going to be a dad. At 33, nothing needed to change. That's what a decade of inner work looks like. Generational patterns can't all be interrupted consciously — but the tools you carry into parenthood matter more than perfection The ego gets tested like nowhere else in fatherhood. Brad is already feeling it during his wife's pregnancy. \"Better than my dad\" is a ceiling, not a destination. Real growth means crafting the father you are meant to be. Vulnerability with your partner — especially about your fears around fatherhood — can open unexpected doors Giving yourself permission to fall, ask for support, and be a mess is not weakness. It's the foundation of conscious parenting. Fatherhood is the number one course on the planet. There's no way to do it right — and no way to not fail. That's the gift. If you enjoyed The Dad Manual, leave us a rating on your podcast…","meta_description":"What does it look like to become a father through the windshield — not the rearview mirror? Tony Cooper sits down with Brad Barnes, a transformational tra…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2865,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-dad-manual-7554137/episodes/ep-10-before-the-baby-arrives-real-talk-from-a-soon-to-be-father/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dad-manual-7554137/ep-10-before-the-baby-arrives-real-talk-from-a-soon-to-be-father.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}