{"podcast":{"title":"The Coach JV Podcast","slug":"the-coach-jv-podcast-225111","podcast_index_feed_id":225111,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/AOR5748840184","website_url":"https://ageofradio.com/jvimpacts/","image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/45ef0b8c-66d3-11e8-80d0-9703a45db112/image/74641c30a90c9640ad69c19f2b194588.png?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"John Vasquez","episode_count":2338,"summary":"Welcome to the Coach JV Podcast! We come to you Monday through Friday with our host Coach JV. We focus on short and to the point podcasts to get you pumped for your day! The Coach JV Podcast comes at you Monday thru Friday for your daily dose about Motivation, Health, and Life! Let's Go!!!!","last_synced_at":"2026-07-21T18:19:58.136779+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-coach-jv-podcast-225111"},"episode":{"title":"E2337 | MAKE IT AWKWARD! Why Being \"Nice\" is Destroying Your Life","slug":"e2337-make-it-awkward-why-being-nice-is-destroying-your-life","published_at":"2026-07-21T09:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-coach-jv-podcast-225111/e2337-make-it-awkward-why-being-nice-is-destroying-your-life","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-coach-jv-podcast-225111","url":"https://pdcn.co/e/traffic.megaphone.fm/AOR6258493896.mp3","audio_url":"https://pdcn.co/e/traffic.megaphone.fm/AOR6258493896.mp3","summary":"Pick up my new book The American Nightmare! => ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click Here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ In Today's Episode Welcome to Tuesday's episode of my podcast! We are continuing this week's theme of guarding the gate and the power of discernment. Today, I am breaking down the massive difference between being \"nice\" and being discerning, and why you actually need to start making things awkward to protect your family's peace. I am getting real about my own past of people-pleasing, plus we have a hilarious mid-podcast interruption when my son literally runs for his life from a massive locust invasion in our yard! Key Topics Discussed: Manifesting Reality: I start with a reminder that what you believe in your heart and think in your mind will eventually become your physical reality. What you repeatedly do becomes an unconscious activity ingrained in your subconscious mind. Nice vs. Discerning: The world tells you to say \"yes\" to keep the peace and to tolerate absolutely anything just to be liked. I explain why a man without boundaries isn't generous—he is totally unguarded. Remember: discernment decides what gets in, but boundaries decide what stays out. Make It Awkward: I open up about my own past of saying yes to everything because I didn't want to hurt feelings. But here is the truth: my family's peace, freedom, and structure are the most important things to me outside of God. If someone tries to disrupt that, hell yeah, I am going to make it awkward! Leadership & Ecosystems: If you tolerate everything just to be liked in your business, you will completely destroy your ecosystem. Your team will stop trusting your judgment, they will lose respect for you, and your ship will eventually sink.…","meta_description":"Pick up my new book The American Nightmare! => ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click Here!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":383,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-coach-jv-podcast-225111/episodes/e2337-make-it-awkward-why-being-nice-is-destroying-your-life/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-coach-jv-podcast-225111/e2337-make-it-awkward-why-being-nice-is-destroying-your-life.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}