{"podcast":{"title":"The Best Life Podcast","slug":"the-best-life-podcast-446917","podcast_index_feed_id":446917,"rss_url":"https://feeds.redcircle.com/ed4bd493-7164-4cc6-9b61-44d50af23fe1","website_url":"https://redcircle.com/shows/the-best-life-podcast9779","image_url":"https://media.redcircle.com/images/2024/5/3/20/266786e1-a19d-4755-85b0-38e15e2a4752_2472-5a44-4bf4-b948-42def854c8c3_2019tbl_cover.jpg","author":"Danny-J Johnson & Jill Coleman","episode_count":637,"summary":"Welcome to The Best Life podcast! Here we talk about everything from: success, money, relationships, entrepreneurship, productivity, honest communication, positive psychology, and an abundance mindset. Creating a life that YOU choose.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-30T00:18:50.711230+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-best-life-podcast-446917"},"episode":{"title":"Ep. 629: Having A Crush Outside Of Your Relationship","slug":"ep-629-having-a-crush-outside-of-your-relationship","published_at":"2026-06-03T12:00:07+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-best-life-podcast-446917/ep-629-having-a-crush-outside-of-your-relationship","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-best-life-podcast-446917","url":"http://thebestlifepodcast.com","audio_url":"https://pdst.fm/e/audio4.redcircle.com/episodes/b03f4cfe-dd2d-46c8-a5cc-f312528fcb61/stream.mp3","summary":"We’re pretty sensitive to cheating and the harm it causes a person (we’ll give you three guesses as to why) so we found ourselves wondering if are crushes ever okay while you’re still in a relationship? There’s no stopping the rush of feelings when it comes to having a crush, but we do have some say over our actions and every single one of us knows when too far becomes too far. Fantasizing may not be a red flag, but hiding and secrecy sure are. Look, when it comes to crushes, we think the best course of action is pretty damn simple: don’t fucking do anything that you wouldn’t want your partner to do to you. Finding formal attire [1:22] Focusing on our potential for finances [4:27] You can’t control a crush [7:47] Is having a crush mean something is wrong in your relationship? [10:12] An emotional attachment is a slippery slope [12:17] Are you hiding this person from your partner? [16:45] Pulling away from a chemical rush [18:50] When does fantasy go too far? [21:36] Drawing the line at progression [23:41] The grass is always greener [26:10] Subscribe to The Lighthouse Letters https://dannyjdotcom.substack.com/ Don’t forget to leave us a review and subscribe so you never have to miss an episode! Comments and questions can also be sent to info@thebestlifepodcast.com , and you can head to thebestlifepodcast.com to join our Facebook Group. FOLLOW US ON IG: @TheBestLifePodcast FOLLOW JILL: @jillfit FOLLOW DANNY J: @dannyjdotcom You can also follow us on Facebook @Jill Coleman @Danny-J Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy","meta_description":"We’re pretty sensitive to cheating and the harm it causes a person (we’ll give you three guesses as to why) so we found ourselves wondering if are crushes…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2078,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-best-life-podcast-446917/episodes/ep-629-having-a-crush-outside-of-your-relationship/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-best-life-podcast-446917/ep-629-having-a-crush-outside-of-your-relationship.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}