{"podcast":{"title":"Taking Control: The ADHD Podcast","slug":"taking-control-the-adhd-podcast-386692","podcast_index_feed_id":386692,"rss_url":"https://feeds.transistor.fm/adhd_public","website_url":"https://takecontroladhd.com/the-adhd-podcast","image_url":"https://img.transistorcdn.com/f7j3OKLKTTDetUkHhk2HB3ckB4V95JrbH74ISJ2_hCc/rs:fill:0:0:1/w:1400/h:1400/q:60/mb:500000/aHR0cHM6Ly9pbWct/dXBsb2FkLXByb2R1/Y3Rpb24udHJhbnNp/c3Rvci5mbS9zaG93/LzMzMDkxLzE2NjUw/MTA5NjYtYXJ0d29y/ay5qcGc.jpg","author":"TruStory FM","episode_count":555,"summary":"Nikki Kinzer and Pete Wright offer support, life management strategies, and time and technology tips, dedicated to anyone looking to take control while living with ADHD.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-30T20:18:01.971951+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/taking-control-the-adhd-podcast-386692"},"episode":{"title":"Why Your Plans Fall Apart","slug":"why-your-plans-fall-apart","published_at":"2026-04-23T10:24:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/taking-control-the-adhd-podcast-386692/why-your-plans-fall-apart","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/taking-control-the-adhd-podcast-386692","url":"https://share.transistor.fm/s/c8fbfcb4","audio_url":"https://op3.dev/e/media.transistor.fm/c8fbfcb4/e913d84c.mp3","summary":"This week kicks off a three-part series on planning, and it starts where every planning conversation should: with honesty about why plans fall apart in the first place. Pete opens with his own cascading construction disaster at home, where raccoon damage set off a chain reaction of disruptions that has bled directly into his work life. Nikki’s diagnosis is both simple and profound: when you make a plan, you’re trying to predict the future with the information you have right now. When that future doesn’t cooperate, the real problem isn’t the plan failing. It’s that we treat plan failure like a personal failure. From there, Nikki walks through the full spectrum of executive function challenges that make ADHD planning uniquely hard: time blindness that operates at every scale from individual task to entire month, working memory that drops the ball the moment you turn around, prioritization paralysis where everything feels equally urgent, the cognitive inflexibility that turns one bad morning into a ruined day, emotional regulation struggles and the sharp edge of RSD when disappointing someone is unavoidable, and sustained attention that evaporates the moment your environment gets interesting. At the center of it all is what Pete calls “fantasy Pete,” the imaginary version of himself who wields time like a saber and never lets anyone down, and whom nobody would actually like at a party. The antidote isn’t a better system. It’s moving from shame to curiosity. Nikki’s framework: instead of asking what’s wrong with you, ask what your brain actually needs. Find the friction. Learn your own flavor of ADHD. Build in margin so that when things go sideways, you have something left in the tank for recovery. The episode closes on Pete’s central paradox, the one he returns to with cl…","meta_description":"This week kicks off a three-part series on planning, and it starts where every planning conversation should: with honesty about why plans fall apart in th…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1967,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/taking-control-the-adhd-podcast-386692/episodes/why-your-plans-fall-apart/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/taking-control-the-adhd-podcast-386692/why-your-plans-fall-apart.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}