{"podcast":{"title":"Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups","slug":"surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371","podcast_index_feed_id":1510371,"rss_url":"https://www.spreaker.com/show/4651578/episodes/feed","website_url":"https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts","image_url":"https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b0b948947809011d6d5feecbf05aa94e.jpg","author":"A.J. Mahari","episode_count":194,"summary":"A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more. https://ajmahari.ca/sessions https://ajmahari.ca/gottatal k - After Hours https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts https://survivngbpdbreakup.com https://survivingaborderline.com https://codependency.ca","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371"},"episode":{"title":"The BPD Love Paradox","slug":"the-bpd-love-paradox","published_at":"2025-08-06T18:06:09+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371/the-bpd-love-paradox","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371","url":"https://www.spreaker.com/episode/the-bpd-love-paradox--67275635","audio_url":"https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/67275635/the_bpd_love_paradox.mp3","summary":"The BPD Love Paradox Why does someone with Borderline Personality Disorder crave deep love—only to sabotage and destroy it when it arrives? In this episode of Surviving BPD Relationship Breakup Podcast I explore the heartbreaking paradox at the center of BPD. From BPD self-fulfilling prophecies, the acting out of unconscious BPD repetition compulsions, and defensive splitting to the tragic pattern of testing love until it breaks, A.J. Mahari compassionately unpacks why intimacy feels both irresistible and terrifying to those with BPD. Whether you're loving someone with BPD or navigating the disorder yourself, this episode offers clarity, empathy, and a path toward healing. https://ajmahari.ca/sessions - Sessions https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts - Podcasts https://ajmahari.com - Online Store new info Products coming soon This podcast is ranked in the Top 100 Relationships Podcasts on feedspot.com at: 100 Best Relationship Podcasts You Must Follow in 2025 Million Podcasts has ranked this podcast in the top 60 Codependency Podcasts, the top 100 Narcissistic Abuse Podcasts and the top 100 in their Toxic Relationship Podcast lists. https://www.millionpodcasts.com/codependency-podcasts/ https://www.millionpodcasts.com/narcissistic-abuse-podcasts/ https://www.millionpodcasts.com/toxic-relationship-podcasts/","meta_description":"The BPD Love Paradox Why does someone with Borderline Personality Disorder crave deep love—only to sabotage and destroy it when it arrives? In this episod…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1600,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371/episodes/the-bpd-love-paradox/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371/the-bpd-love-paradox.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}