{"podcast":{"title":"Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups","slug":"surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371","podcast_index_feed_id":1510371,"rss_url":"https://www.spreaker.com/show/4651578/episodes/feed","website_url":"https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts","image_url":"https://d3wo5wojvuv7l.cloudfront.net/t_rss_itunes_square_1400/images.spreaker.com/original/b0b948947809011d6d5feecbf05aa94e.jpg","author":"A.J. Mahari","episode_count":194,"summary":"A.J. Mahari is a Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach who has 35 years experience working with people surviving Borderline Personality Relationship Breakups in all relationship types, healing from codependency, Inner Child Healing, Family of Origin and Self Differentiation. A.J. also works with people surviving a Narcissistic Relationship Breakup or Co-Monbidly both BPD/NPD Breakup and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery and much more. https://ajmahari.ca/sessions https://ajmahari.ca/gottatal k - After Hours https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts https://survivngbpdbreakup.com https://survivingaborderline.com https://codependency.ca","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371"},"episode":{"title":"Borderline Induced Conversations - When Talking Turns Into Trauma for Codependents","slug":"borderline-induced-conversations-when-talking-turns-into-trauma-for-codependents","published_at":"2025-10-12T03:03:51+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371/borderline-induced-conversations-when-talking-turns-into-trauma-for-codependents","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371","url":"https://www.spreaker.com/episode/borderline-induced-conversations-when-talking-turns-into-trauma-for-codependents--68104014","audio_url":"https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68104014/borderline_induced_conversations_when_talking_turns_into_trauma_for_codependents.mp3","summary":"Borderline Induced Conversations - When Talking Turns Into Trauma for Codependents When you try to talk to someone with Borderline Personality Disorder and the conversation suddenly turns emotional, chaotic, or painful — you’re not communicating. You’re in an induced conversation. In this episode, A.J. Mahari explains how Borderlines and Codependents unconsciously pull each other into trauma-based emotional loops that feel like connection but are actually dysregulation. You’ll learn what’s really happening in your nervous system, why you keep getting drawn back in, and how to finally step out of these trauma-bonded “talks” that never resolve anything and never bring peace. In this podcast episode: What an induced conversation really is How Borderlines project pain and Codependents absorb it The nervous-system collision behind emotional chaos Why calm feels unsafe after trauma How to end the cycle and reclaim your peace https://ajmahari.ca/sessions - Sessions https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts - Podcasts https://ajmahari.com - Online Store new Course Modules coming soon https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - This podcast and my Youtube This podcast is ranked in the Top 100 Relationships Podcasts on feedspot.com at: 100 Best Relationship Podcasts You Must Follow in 2025 Million Podcast s has ranked this podcast in the top 60 Codependency Podcasts, the top 100 Narcissistic Abuse Podcasts and the top 100 in their Toxic Relationship Podcast lists. https://www.millionpodcasts.com/codependency-podcasts/ https://www.millionpodcasts.com/narcissistic-abuse-podcasts/ https://www.millionpodcasts.com/toxic-relationship-podcasts/","meta_description":"Borderline Induced Conversations - When Talking Turns Into Trauma for Codependents When you try to talk to someone with Borderline Personality Disorder an…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1189,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371/episodes/borderline-induced-conversations-when-talking-turns-into-trauma-for-codependents/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371/borderline-induced-conversations-when-talking-turns-into-trauma-for-codependents.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}