{"podcast":{"title":"Strictly Anonymous Confessions","slug":"strictly-anonymous-confessions-390774","podcast_index_feed_id":390774,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/strictlyanonymous","website_url":"http://strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/","image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/856db814-c5f2-11ea-b7ae-4325e4000e56/image/799d441a418edf18cdb03cb4111798af.png?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Strictly Anonymous","episode_count":1507,"summary":"Strictly Anonymous Confessions is a raw, real podcast where people call in anonymously to share their most personal and intimate stories. From relationships and dating to sex, secrets, and everything in between, nothing is scripted and every conversation is honest. Kathy dives deep with callers, asking the questions everyone is thinking but rarely says, creating open, judgment-free conversations you won’t hear anywhere else. If you’ve ever wondered what people are really doing, thinking, and hiding behind closed doors, this is the podcast for you. For advertising opportunities, please email strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com THE BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. 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Tue in to hear al he details including how she wound up in a non-monogamous relationship and how it has worked for her, the issues her and her partner have had in the bedroom and how she went about fixing them, how and why she decided to become a sex and relationship coach, what tantra means and how she brings it into her sessions to help people, the top three reasons people in good relationships stop having good sex, what comes first lack of attraction or disconnection, reconnection rituals that work, why divorce is looked at so negatively and why it shouldn’t always be, what an erotic blueprint is and how to use it to help identify what your partner is into and why it’s so important, why having someone help facilitate conversations can be a game changer plus a whole lot more. You can find her free gift here: https://www.deborahkat.com/relationship-lab-opt GET A COPY OF THE STRICTLY ANONYMOUS BOOK! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. 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