{"podcast":{"title":"Sorry, I Missed This: The Everything Guide to ADHD and Relationships with Cate Osborn","slug":"sorry-i-missed-this-the-everything-guide-to-adhd-and-relationships-with-cate-osborn-6934483","podcast_index_feed_id":6934483,"rss_url":"https://feeds.simplecast.com/xF5Cl7lM","website_url":"https://www.understood.org/en/podcasts/sorry-i-missed-this","image_url":"https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/833a165d-5e3f-4f74-a9ab-ae449f2d94a4/78a4f2be-09ce-4404-b6c8-a8379ccc81ef/3000x3000/simtapplelogo.jpg?aid=rss_feed","author":"Understood.org","episode_count":54,"summary":"It can be hard to navigate relationships when you have ADHD. Host Cate Osborn has ADHD, a background in sex education, and a whole lot of questions like “How do I know what I want out of a relationship? How do I remember my friends exist? What can I do to handle conflict better?” Tune in to Sorry, I Missed This to learn about topics like social skills, boundaries, communication, intimacy, and sex. Join Cate in unpacking the taboo, painful, and often hilarious challenges of being in a relationship when you have ADHD.","last_synced_at":"2026-06-16T14:18:44.346358+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sorry-i-missed-this-the-everything-guide-to-adhd-and-relationships-with-cate-osborn-6934483"},"episode":{"title":"Why good sex can make your ADHD brain spiral","slug":"why-good-sex-can-make-your-adhd-brain-spiral","published_at":"2026-06-16T04:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sorry-i-missed-this-the-everything-guide-to-adhd-and-relationships-with-cate-osborn-6934483/why-good-sex-can-make-your-adhd-brain-spiral","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sorry-i-missed-this-the-everything-guide-to-adhd-and-relationships-with-cate-osborn-6934483","url":"https://www.understood.org/en/podcasts/sorry-i-missed-this/adhd-sex-reddit","audio_url":"https://mgln.ai/e/1245/afp-935247-injected.calisto.simplecastaudio.com/b69e7ae3-6261-4441-847d-84b122839136/episodes/606ebeda-cc3d-4124-ade7-2e9aef573283/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=b69e7ae3-6261-4441-847d-84b122839136&awEpisodeId=606ebeda-cc3d-4124-ade7-2e9aef573283&feed=xF5Cl7lM","summary":"Do you feel almost manic after really good sex — craving more, making impulsive decisions, fixating on the next time? In this episode of Reddit reactions, Cate and Jessamine tackle five real Reddit posts from ADHD women. Digging into some seriously NSFW posts, they look at why some people with ADHD never feel spontaneous sexual attraction — and why that might be about “out of sight, out of mind.” Also… The orgasm pressure problem: When a partner’s need for reassurance after sex gets in the way of intimacy. The sex countdown: The anxiety loop that starts the moment sex ends (“It’s been X days”). And how scheduling intimacy (not sex specifically) can interrupt it. Hyperfixation and libido: Does getting obsessively into a show, book, or research topic actually raise your sex drive? Real Reddit questions, really good answers.","meta_description":"Do you feel almost manic after really good sex — craving more, making impulsive decisions, fixating on the next time? In this episode of Reddit reactions,…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1509,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/sorry-i-missed-this-the-everything-guide-to-adhd-and-relationships-with-cate-osborn-6934483/episodes/why-good-sex-can-make-your-adhd-brain-spiral/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sorry-i-missed-this-the-everything-guide-to-adhd-and-relationships-with-cate-osborn-6934483/why-good-sex-can-make-your-adhd-brain-spiral.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}