{"podcast":{"title":"She Is Courageous Podcast with Shelley Bosworth","slug":"she-is-courageous-podcast-with-shelley-bosworth-7029339","podcast_index_feed_id":7029339,"rss_url":"https://feeds.captivate.fm/she-is-courageous/","website_url":"https://shelleybosworthofficial.com/shes-courageous-podcast/","image_url":"https://artwork.captivate.fm/c73354f8-fb78-4125-9492-c9418c37d60b/shelley-podcast.jpeg","author":"Shelley Bosworth","episode_count":87,"summary":"The She Is Courageous Podcast is for capable women who look confident on the outside but know they’re holding back on the inside. Hosted by Dubai-based business and mindset coach Shelley Bosworth, this podcast explores the psychology of ambition and the mindset patterns that shape how women show up in their careers, businesses and lives. With over 25 years in leadership and business, Shelley brings real-world perspective to the inner work, challenging the idea that confidence comes first and showing why courage is the real catalyst for change. Through honest solo reflections and thoughtful guest conversations, she explores the beliefs, pressures and patterns that keep high-performing women stuck in overthinking, burnout or self-doubt, even when they’re doing everything “right.” Because confidence rarely comes first. Courage does.","last_synced_at":null,"page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/she-is-courageous-podcast-with-shelley-bosworth-7029339"},"episode":{"title":"When People Pleasing Becomes Self Sabotage","slug":"when-people-pleasing-becomes-self-sabotage","published_at":"2026-01-26T02:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/she-is-courageous-podcast-with-shelley-bosworth-7029339/when-people-pleasing-becomes-self-sabotage","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/she-is-courageous-podcast-with-shelley-bosworth-7029339","url":"https://shelleybosworthofficial.com/shes-courageous-podcast/","audio_url":"https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/3d5cecbb-761b-489e-864b-c3e40f13d49a.mp3","summary":"If you’re constantly overcommitting, overexplaining, or second-guessing how others will react to your decisions, this episode is for you. People pleasing often gets dressed up as being “nice”. But under the surface, it’s fear. Fear of conflict. Fear of disconnection. Fear of being misunderstood or rejected. And left unchecked, it quietly turns into self-sabotage. In this solo episode, Shelley breaks down why people pleasing isn’t a personality trait or a weakness — it’s a learned habit rooted in safety. She shares how it shows up in business, leadership, and relationships, and why your nervous system keeps choosing approval over honesty. Most importantly, she walks you through practical, realistic shifts to start disrupting the pattern without swinging to the other extreme. You’ll hear how to build clarity, courage, and confidence — without becoming rude, harsh, or someone you’re not. In this episode, you’ll learn how to: Recognise where people pleasing is running on autopilot Ask what you actually want before defaulting to yes Practise saying no without overexplaining or managing reactions If people pleasing is costing you your energy, your voice, or your alignment, this conversation will help you start choosing yourself — one honest moment at a time. CTA Doors to the Collective might be closed, but Courageous Connections is open — our free monthly networking session for women in business. Join us here: Courageous Connections Want more of this kind of real, practical mindset work? The She Is Courageous Collective is currently closed to new members, but Courageous Connections is open. Courageous Connections is my free monthly online networking event for women in business. No pitch, no pressure, just real conversations, new connections, and the mindset shift you didn’t…","meta_description":"If you’re constantly overcommitting, overexplaining, or second-guessing how others will react to your decisions, this episode is for you. People pleasing…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1060,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/she-is-courageous-podcast-with-shelley-bosworth-7029339/episodes/when-people-pleasing-becomes-self-sabotage/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/she-is-courageous-podcast-with-shelley-bosworth-7029339/when-people-pleasing-becomes-self-sabotage.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}