{"podcast":{"title":"Sex With Emily","slug":"sex-with-emily-1056035","podcast_index_feed_id":1056035,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/CFP9686758960","website_url":"https://www.sexwithemily.com","image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/39bf6c96-a9b0-11ee-b1ce-e7d53bc6d37e/image/3b08102dd16aa35ff1d3d9661bced62e.jpg?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"Sex With Emily","episode_count":1602,"summary":"Dr. Emily Morse shares her expertise on sex, relationships and everything in between! Submit your questions to Emily at sexwithemily.com/ask-emily. For more sexy fun, visit sexwithemily.com and our online store shop.sexwithemily.com. Order her book today: SMART SEX: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-29T02:18:59.187729+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-with-emily-1056035"},"episode":{"title":"How To Know What You Really Want in Bed","slug":"how-to-know-what-you-really-want-in-bed","published_at":"2026-07-14T10:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-with-emily-1056035/how-to-know-what-you-really-want-in-bed","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-with-emily-1056035","url":"https://s.gum.fm/s-655239bc611430d95e9a087f/pscrb.fm/rss/p/traffic.megaphone.fm/CFP7153930632.mp3","audio_url":"https://s.gum.fm/s-655239bc611430d95e9a087f/pscrb.fm/rss/p/traffic.megaphone.fm/CFP7153930632.mp3","summary":"Today, we're diving into pillar four of Sex IQ: self-knowledge. This is the pillar that ties everything together, because once you understand your body (embodiment), your health, and how to collaborate with a partner, the real magic happens when you actually know what turns you on. I'm breaking down core erotic desires using Jack Morin's erotic equation: the struggle we overcame plus the triumph on the other side often reveals exactly what turns us on most. We'll talk about the pleasure thieves that block self-knowledge (stress, trauma, and shame), why mindful self-pleasure is one of the fastest paths to understanding your own arousal, and how naming what you want to feel during sex changes everything about how you ask for it. If you've ever felt like you're just going through the motions in bed, this episode is your permission slip to get curious about yourself again. ABOUT EMILY: Emily Morse is a Doctor of Human Sexuality, author and host of the #1 rated Sex with Emily podcast. Known as a renowned sexologist, Dr. Emily has helped millions of people around the world navigate their sex lives. Her candid and often funny conversations challenge cultural taboos, misinformation and awkward sex talks to create a future where people can deeply connect and embrace pleasure-filled lives. Because, life is too short for bad sex.  CONNECT WITH EMILY: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sexwithemily/  X: https://twitter.com/sexwithemily  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexwithemily  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sexwithemily  Threads: https://www.threads.net/@sexwithemily WANT MORE? Visit the Website: https://sexwithemily.com/ which includes FREE guides. Free Downloadable Guides: https://sexwithemily.com/guides/  Text With Me: https://sexwithemi…","meta_description":"Today, we're diving into pillar four of Sex IQ: self-knowledge. This is the pillar that ties everything together, because once you understand your body (e…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2108,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/sex-with-emily-1056035/episodes/how-to-know-what-you-really-want-in-bed/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-with-emily-1056035/how-to-know-what-you-really-want-in-bed.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}