{"podcast":{"title":"Sex for Saints","slug":"sex-for-saints-714485","podcast_index_feed_id":714485,"rss_url":"https://amandalouder.libsyn.com/rss","website_url":"http://amandalouder.com","image_url":"https://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/a/8/1/e/a81ea4923e484bc1e5bbc093207a2619/Amanda_Louder_Podcast_Cover_2022-02-1.jpg","author":"Amanda Louder","episode_count":428,"summary":"As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life! In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.","last_synced_at":"2026-06-26T20:20:49.280621+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-for-saints-714485"},"episode":{"title":"Episode 423 - The Weight Men Carry Into the Bedroom","slug":"episode-423-the-weight-men-carry-into-the-bedroom","published_at":"2026-05-29T10:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-for-saints-714485/episode-423-the-weight-men-carry-into-the-bedroom","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-for-saints-714485","url":"http://amandalouder.com/podcast/423","audio_url":"https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/amandalouder/Episode_423_-_The_Weight_Men_Carry_Into_the_Bedroom.mp3?dest-id=708670","summary":"What happens when a man spends his whole life believing his desire could hurt someone? In this episode, I will explore how religious and cultural messages about male sexuality can lead men to disconnect from their own desire, constantly monitor themselves during sex, and quietly seek validation from their wives without even realizing it. I'll talk about how this pattern shows up differently in marriage, why it often creates pressure and disconnection for both spouses, and what actually helps men become more present and connected. I'll also share how wives can support without taking responsibility for fixing it, and what changes when men finally learn that their desire was never the problem in the first place.","meta_description":"What happens when a man spends his whole life believing his desire could hurt someone? In this episode, I will explore how religious and cultural messages…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1276,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/sex-for-saints-714485/episodes/episode-423-the-weight-men-carry-into-the-bedroom/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-for-saints-714485/episode-423-the-weight-men-carry-into-the-bedroom.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}