{"podcast":{"title":"Sex for Saints","slug":"sex-for-saints-714485","podcast_index_feed_id":714485,"rss_url":"https://amandalouder.libsyn.com/rss","website_url":"http://amandalouder.com","image_url":"https://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/a/8/1/e/a81ea4923e484bc1e5bbc093207a2619/Amanda_Louder_Podcast_Cover_2022-02-1.jpg","author":"Amanda Louder","episode_count":428,"summary":"As a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach, and a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, Amanda Louder helps conservative Christian women love their sex life! In this podcast, Amanda helps women embrace their sexuality so that they can become the woman they were created to be. She teaches you how to integrate sexuality into your marriage in a loving and healthy way, get rid of the drama and negative emotions around sex in your marriage, and develop a better relationship to yourself, your spouse, and your sexuality.","last_synced_at":"2026-06-26T20:20:49.280621+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-for-saints-714485"},"episode":{"title":"Episode 405 - When Your Spouse Had Previous Sexual Partners","slug":"episode-405-when-your-spouse-had-previous-sexual-partners","published_at":"2026-01-23T10:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-for-saints-714485/episode-405-when-your-spouse-had-previous-sexual-partners","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-for-saints-714485","url":"http://amandalouder.com/podcast/405/","audio_url":"https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/amandalouder/Episode_405_-_When_Your_Spouse_Had_Previous_Sexual_Partners.mp3?dest-id=708670","summary":"In this episode, I talk about what happens when a spouse's sexual past becomes a source of anxiety, comparison, guilt, or secrecy inside a marriage. I unpack why obsessive thoughts about a partner's past aren't really about what happened then, but about fear and insecurity now, and why no amount of details ever brings peace. We also look at the other side of the equation: carrying a past you never disclosed, how secrets quietly create distance, and how to thoughtfully decide whether disclosure is actually the right step. Throughout the episode, I separate repentance before God from emotional healing in marriage, and explain why believing in the Atonement doesn't mean you're required to feel nothing. This episode is for anyone struggling with jealousy, rumination, moral superiority, or the weight of an unresolved sexual past in a faith-based marriage.","meta_description":"In this episode, I talk about what happens when a spouse's sexual past becomes a source of anxiety, comparison, guilt, or secrecy inside a marriage. I unp…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2586,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/sex-for-saints-714485/episodes/episode-405-when-your-spouse-had-previous-sexual-partners/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-for-saints-714485/episode-405-when-your-spouse-had-previous-sexual-partners.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}