{"podcast":{"title":"Sari Swears","slug":"sari-swears-522970","podcast_index_feed_id":522970,"rss_url":"https://saridlm.libsyn.com/rss","website_url":"https://sariswears.com/","image_url":"https://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/4/4/5/9/4459a5e16e60f54b16c3140a3186d450/Sari_Swears_-_Episode_Art_1080x1080_1500_x_1500_px.png","author":"Sari de la Motte","episode_count":389,"summary":"Sari de la Motte is the host of \"Sari Swears\" and has been dubbed the \"Attorney Whisperer\" because of her unique ability to help attorneys communicate their real selves. Tune in every Friday for a new episode of the best fucking podcast on the Internet. I swear. (Like… a LOT. Parental discretion is advised.)","last_synced_at":"2026-07-17T18:17:59.067116+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sari-swears-522970"},"episode":{"title":"Sari Swears Podcast: Fear Is Not a Strategy: Trial Mindset with Special Guest Coach K","slug":"sari-swears-podcast-fear-is-not-a-strategy-trial-mindset-with-special-guest-coach-k","published_at":"2026-03-06T10:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sari-swears-522970/sari-swears-podcast-fear-is-not-a-strategy-trial-mindset-with-special-guest-coach-k","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sari-swears-522970","url":"https://saridlm.libsyn.com/sari-swears-podcast-fear-is-not-a-strategy-trial-mindset-with-special-guest-coach-k","audio_url":"https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/saridlm/S8E26-Audio.mp3?dest-id=656412","summary":"What's actually motivating you in trial? 🤔 Is it love for your client? Love for justice? Love for the craft? Or is it fear? Fear of screwing up. Fear of missing something. Fear of not being good enough. In this week's episode, I'm back with Coach K talking about why so many trial attorneys are fueled by self-criticism and WHY that strategy quietly burns you out. We break down: 👉🏽 Why being hard on yourself doesn't create excellence 👉🏽 Why replaying mistakes reinforces them 👉🏽 How fear-based motivation keeps you stuck 👉🏽 And what happens when you shift to love instead Because fear constricts. Love expands. And what you focus on, you create. Tune in NOW! 🎧 Love, Sari Quote: \"Whatever's motivating you is what's going to move you forward. If it's fulfilling, resonant, exciting — that's the energy you want behind your work. But if it's beating yourself up, focusing on failure, working long hours until you can't think anymore — that's the wrong motivation. It's going to drag you down. You won't be fulfilled. You won't feel joy. And it's not sustainable.\" Coach K Can't get enough of me? Connect with me here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/saridelamotte/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SariSwears Watch on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@SariDLM Free FB Group for Plaintiff & Criminal Defense Attorneys https://www.facebook.com/groups/fromhostagetohero/","meta_description":"What's actually motivating you in trial? 🤔 Is it love for your client? Love for justice? Love for the craft? Or is it fear? Fear of screwing up. Fear of m…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1451,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/sari-swears-522970/episodes/sari-swears-podcast-fear-is-not-a-strategy-trial-mindset-with-special-guest-coach-k/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sari-swears-522970/sari-swears-podcast-fear-is-not-a-strategy-trial-mindset-with-special-guest-coach-k.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}