{"podcast":{"title":"Sari Swears","slug":"sari-swears-522970","podcast_index_feed_id":522970,"rss_url":"https://saridlm.libsyn.com/rss","website_url":"https://sariswears.com/","image_url":"https://static.libsyn.com/p/assets/4/4/5/9/4459a5e16e60f54b16c3140a3186d450/Sari_Swears_-_Episode_Art_1080x1080_1500_x_1500_px.png","author":"Sari de la Motte","episode_count":389,"summary":"Sari de la Motte is the host of \"Sari Swears\" and has been dubbed the \"Attorney Whisperer\" because of her unique ability to help attorneys communicate their real selves. Tune in every Friday for a new episode of the best fucking podcast on the Internet. I swear. (Like… a LOT. Parental discretion is advised.)","last_synced_at":"2026-07-17T18:17:59.067116+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sari-swears-522970"},"episode":{"title":"Sari Swears Podcast: Are You Using the Jury Inappropriately?","slug":"sari-swears-podcast-are-you-using-the-jury-inappropriately","published_at":"2026-03-20T09:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sari-swears-522970/sari-swears-podcast-are-you-using-the-jury-inappropriately","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sari-swears-522970","url":"https://saridlm.libsyn.com/are-you-using-the-jury-inappropriately","audio_url":"https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/saridlm/S8E28-Audio.mp3?dest-id=656412","summary":"What if the issue isn't your case… but HOW you're thinking about the jury? Most lawyers won't say this out loud, but it's happening. You're asking the jury to do MORE than their job. Not just decide the case, but decide if you're good enough. If they rule in your favor → you feel validated. If they don't → you question everything. That's the trap. Because the jury's job is simple: hold bad actors accountable. That's it. They are NOT there to: 🚫 Like you 🚫 Validate you 🚫 Prove you're a good lawyer And the moment you start needing that from them… YOU stop serving them and start trying to get something from them. They can feel that. 🙅🏽‍♀️Stop asking, \"What do they think of me?\" ✅Start asking, \"How can I help them do their job?\" That's where everything changes. Tune in NOW! 🎧 Love, Sari Quote: \"You are giving them the job of making you feel good about yourself. That is not their job. So much of your self-worth is tied up in whether these six or eight or twelve people like you… and that is dangerous.\" Sari de la Motte Can't get enough of me? Connect with me here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/saridelamotte/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SariSwears Watch on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@SariDLM Free FB Group for Plaintiff & Criminal Defense Attorneys https://www.facebook.com/groups/fromhostagetohero/","meta_description":"What if the issue isn't your case… but HOW you're thinking about the jury? Most lawyers won't say this out loud, but it's happening. You're asking the jur…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":1365,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/sari-swears-522970/episodes/sari-swears-podcast-are-you-using-the-jury-inappropriately/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/sari-swears-522970/sari-swears-podcast-are-you-using-the-jury-inappropriately.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}