{"podcast":{"title":"Raising Boys & Girls","slug":"raising-boys-girls-730400","podcast_index_feed_id":730400,"rss_url":"https://feeds.megaphone.fm/TSF1512501751","website_url":"https://redcircle.com/shows/raising-boys-and-girls","image_url":"https://megaphone.imgix.net/podcasts/29cd77ce-a51e-11ee-8fb6-43051676e60c/image/87db7178-4e58-4397-9f62-299ecdb38140_b562-6c9c6a1de41f_raising-boys-and-girls-cover.jpg?ixlib=rails-4.3.1&max-w=3000&max-h=3000&fit=crop&auto=format,compress","author":"That Sounds Fun Network","episode_count":401,"summary":"Welcome to the Raising Boys and Girls Podcast with Sissy Goff, David Thomas, and Melissa Trevathan. In each episode of this podcast, we’ll share some of what we’re learning in the work we do with kids and families on a daily basis at Daystar Counseling Ministries. Our goal is to help you care for the kids in your life with a little more understanding, a little more practical help, and a whole lot of hope. So pull up a chair and join us on this journey of raising boys and girls. Connect with us at raisingboysandgirls.com.","last_synced_at":"2026-07-21T18:21:21.809882+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/raising-boys-girls-730400"},"episode":{"title":"Episode 372: When to Push and When to Pull Back in the Middle School Years with Dr. Lisa Damour","slug":"episode-372-when-to-push-and-when-to-pull-back-in-the-middle-school-years-with-dr-lisa-damour","published_at":"2026-05-05T09:00:00+00:00","page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/raising-boys-girls-730400/episode-372-when-to-push-and-when-to-pull-back-in-the-middle-school-years-with-dr-lisa-damour","show_page_url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/raising-boys-girls-730400","url":"https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/pfx.vpixl.com/7i87e/mgln.ai/e/424/claritaspod.com/measure/traffic.megaphone.fm/TSF4954314392.mp3?updated=1777861340","audio_url":"https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/pfx.vpixl.com/7i87e/mgln.ai/e/424/claritaspod.com/measure/traffic.megaphone.fm/TSF4954314392.mp3?updated=1777861340","summary":"Dr. Lisa Damour explains that resilience comes from learning to handle discomfort, not avoiding it, and reminds parents that mental health isn’t about always feeling happy. Especially in the middle school years, kids face rapid changes and self-doubt, making it crucial for parents to support rather than rescue. By allowing kids to work through hard moments while staying gently connected, we help them build the confidence and capability they need for life. Resources mentioned: Untangled: Guiding Teenage Girls Through the Seven Transitions into Adulthood by Dr. Lisa Damour Under Pressure: Confronting the Epidemic of Stress and Anxiety in Girls by Dr. Lisa Damour The Emotional Lives of Teenagers: Raising Connected, Capable, and Compassionate Adolescents by Dr. Lisa Damour . . . . . .  Sign up to receive the⁠ bi-⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠monthly newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to keep up to date with where David and Sissy are speaking, where they are taco'ing, PLUS conversation starters for you and your family to share! Pre-order our new book, Capable and grab tickets for Capable - The Book Tour here! See our speaking dates, purchase books and check out our courses here.. . . . . .  If you would like to partner with Raising Boys and Girls as a podcast sponsor, fill out our⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Advertise With Us⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ form. QUINCE: Go to ⁠Quince.com/rbg⁠ for free shipping on your order and three hundred and sixty-five -day returns. BOLL & BRANCH: Get 15% off plus free shipping on your first set of sheets at Bollandbranch.com/rbg⁠. Exclusions apply. SHOPIFY: Go to https://tinyurl.com/RBGShopify to learn more about Shopify! LEGACY BOX: Legacybox is running their Mother’s Day sale and they’re also offering an additional $10 off your order. Visit Legacybox.com and use discount code: RBGGO GO MINNO: Visit GoMinno.com t…","meta_description":"Dr. Lisa Damour explains that resilience comes from learning to handle discomfort, not avoiding it, and reminds parents that mental health isn’t about alw…","key_points":[],"chapters":[],"topics":[],"duration_seconds":2741,"processing_state":"not_requested","actions":[{"name":"request_transcript","method":"POST","url":"https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/raising-boys-girls-730400/episodes/episode-372-when-to-push-and-when-to-pull-back-in-the-middle-school-years-with-dr-lisa-damour/transcription-requests","description":"Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode."},{"name":"read_markdown","method":"GET","url":"https://stenobird.com/podcast/raising-boys-girls-730400/episode-372-when-to-push-and-when-to-pull-back-in-the-middle-school-years-with-dr-lisa-damour.md","description":"Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource."}]}}